richardpole1 Posted March 9, 2019 Posted March 9, 2019 I have been talking to a girl for almost two months. Anyway, we finally went out on Saturday (2 days ago). It was a really great date, I think. We talked a little about how it was good to meet. Yesterday, we talked a little but it was when I initiated. Today, I haven't heard from her at all. We had been talking daily. Is this a bad sign?
emeraldgreen Posted March 9, 2019 Posted March 9, 2019 Two months is a very long escalation. It might have built up expectations that were not met. It's hard to know what the vibe was like when you messaged again, but you'll only know by asking for another date. Maybe phrase the next date as "I'm going to see Captain Marvel, wanna come along?" or some other activity that you plan on doing with or without her company. If you get low interest or a no without any alternative offered, move along. 2
shydad Posted March 9, 2019 Posted March 9, 2019 Is this a bad sign? Hi richardpole1. Maybe it's a bad sign, but you won't know for sure until after a full day passes with no communication. I'm assuming that when you said "daily", you meant you communicated every single day for two months, without even a single day of no communication. I agree with everything emeraldgreen said. I would follow that advice.
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