Do guys show attention, stare at and try to talk/take out any girl?

[rinalia]

Do guys usually just do this to any girl whether they find too attractive or not? This happens but Idk if it's because they truly find me attractive or just the they're just a guy

[preraph]

They don't pay attention to ones they aren't at least a little attracted to. But remember, staring doesnt equal respect. Some predatory men look for signs of submissiin and fear and get off on intimidation.

[rinalia]

They don't pay attention to ones they aren't at least a little attracted to. But remember, staring doesnt equal respect. Some predatory men look for signs of submissiin and fear and get off on intimidation.

 

Hm so what is the difference in being able to tell if he truly finds you appealing/attractive or just meh/somewhat?

[d0nnivain]

If they find you appealing they will talk to you. It's the ones who only want an extra notch on their bed post you have to watch out for.

[rinalia]

If they find you appealing they will talk to you. It's the ones who only want an extra notch on their bed post you have to watch out for.

 

How do you tell if they find you truly appealing or looking for "notch" on belt

[preraph]

Assume they're just looking for a notch on the belt. If they want to talk, they'll Talk, not stare.

[d0nnivain]

How do you tell if they find you truly appealing or looking for "notch" on belt

 

Based on how they talk & act. If they are respectful you are good. If they immediately jump to sexy talk, too many compliments etc. be careful.

[rinalia]

Based on how they talk & act. If they are respectful you are good. If they immediately jump to sexy talk, too many compliments etc. be careful.

 

Okay so compliments are bad?

[d0nnivain]

A compliment or two is fine. Bombarding you with them especially if they all pertain to how you look is very bad.

 

Too much sexual talk too early is bad.

 

Your EX who sent anatomy pictures & asked you not to wear panties: Major league lying creeping hoping to pray on innocent naïve you.

[rinalia]

A compliment or two is fine. Bombarding you with them especially if they all pertain to how you look is very bad.

 

Too much sexual talk too early is bad.

 

Your EX who sent anatomy pictures & asked you not to wear panties: Major league lying creeping hoping to pray on innocent naïve you.

 

Wow then why were people saying i wasn't going to get different answers. Everyone said yes he was genuine etc, but you said otherwise now. So he was just "acting" marriage minded? NO matter he cried for me, tried to make up after every fight, always talking about family and how living with his parents he had certain expectations. Was I lied to?

[d0nnivain]

I didn't know about the anatomy picks, the request that you go without panties & him practically trying to force you into sexual acts short of copulation before now or if I did I missed them.

[rinalia]

I didn't know about the anatomy picks, the request that you go without panties & him practically trying to force you into sexual acts short of copulation before now or if I did I missed them.

 

I went wearing a skirt and a thong and he just touched me there I guess I didn't find this off but I should have? I also got mad at him for sending the anatomy pictures.