Londonguy2019 Posted March 7, 2019 Posted March 7, 2019 So we had what I believe to be quite a lovely first date over dinner, We talked endlessly, she laughed, I laughed I felt hugely attracted robber. Afterwards i text to say it was lovely and we should meet up again soon, she agreed and here we are meeting tomorrow She said she can only meet early evening for a coffee because she has to go to her friend’s birthday, but I just can’t help but think this is a little bit of a lame second date and maybe she’s just not that interested? Maybe I’m reading too much into the situation? Any advice you on how I make this a great second date just sat in aCoffee shop?
alphamale Posted March 7, 2019 Posted March 7, 2019 tell her you are dating other girls, that should make her jelous
preraph Posted March 7, 2019 Posted March 7, 2019 She has other plans but is working you in because she WANTS to see you. Take that as a compliment! Ask her about her friend and all that. Just have fun talking and then she'll go to her friend's thing. 1
Larry56 Posted March 7, 2019 Posted March 7, 2019 Just wait a bit. At least a week to see if she makes a move. Don't send too many texts or try to get a conversation going with her just simply because you want to hear from her. Do it with a purpose.
edgygirl Posted March 8, 2019 Posted March 8, 2019 I sat at a coffee shop the other day with a man before a concert and had a great time - because the conversation was great. I didn’t even feel like I was not drinking alcohol or so. If you’re a good conversationalist the date will go well. Tell her entertaining stories and ask her interesting questions.
Foxhall Posted March 8, 2019 Posted March 8, 2019 Going forward to a third date and so on, try to be a a bit more creative than just going for dinner or coffee, plan some outdoor activity, sightseeing, perhaps crazy golf outing, ice skating rink or something (lol just ideas you'll probably think of something better) but being creative is important , keep things interesting, otherwise it may just get boring and the connection will fizzle out! I had this experience before, the first date and second date went quite well, however we met again a few times and things seemed to go backwards, "all we seem to do is eat or drink" became a problem after the fifth date and that was the end of it actually!
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