mysterious_confused Posted September 20, 2005 Posted September 20, 2005 Confused and hoping that this will generate a lot of needed advice since I am torn between my emotions. My name is John “31” and I met this great girl Heather. Well to try to make it short but put enough information as possible. Heather “30”, was in the middle of getting a divorce from her current husband, it was a bad divorce. Well to cut to the chase we got to know each other for about a year and decided to move in together once the divorce was finalized she had kids, which I quickly adapted to them and they adapted to me. Well things were going fine I thought then all of sudden before we reached the anniversary mark she decided that she needed her space. I mean what does a women mean by “space”. Well I pushed for answers and found myself moved out and living in another apartment without her. On top of everything her not wanting to have anything to do with me, she even went as far as finding someone else to date because she said could not handle me hounding about us about getting together and asking her questions. Well things went to dating this guy for about two weeks, they got intimate and you know the rest, they since then broke up and she wants to be friends and communicate with me again. She says now she wants to be best friends and see what happens later. I mean is she still interested? I am so confused? My heart feels like a trampoline. She says she wants to be alone now and her messages are like rhymes and riddles. Am I seeing too much in this? Her kids love me and I love them so it is really hard. I am not sure what to do anymore. I love her and her children and its hard to not know what to do. Do I need to give her more space?
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