losangelena Posted March 7, 2019 Posted March 7, 2019 Therapy doesn’t “work” the first time. That’s the point, is that you keep going back. It gives cumulative benefits. 1
TheFinalWord Posted March 7, 2019 Posted March 7, 2019 (edited) I live in the American Gardens building on West 81st street. My name is guy45. I'm 27 years old. I believe in taking care of myself, and a balanced diet and a rigorous exercise routine. In the morning, if my face is a little puffy, I'll put on an ice pack while doing my stomach crunches. I can do a thousand now. After I remove the ice pack, I use a deep pore cleanser lotion. In the shower, I use a water activated gel cleanser. Then a honey almond body scrub. And on the face, an exfoliating gel scrub. Then apply an herb mint facial mask, which I leave on for 10 minutes while I prepare the rest of my routine. I always use an aftershave lotion with little or no alcohol, because alcohol dries your face out and makes you look older. Then moisturizer, then an anti-aging eye balm followed by a final moisturizing protective lotion. There is an idea of a guy45, some kind of abstraction, but there is no real me. Only an entity, something illusory. And though I can hide my cold gaze, and you can shake my hand and feel flesh gripping yours and maybe you can even sense our life styles are probably comparable, I simply am not there. Being serous though, OP: She's probably saying that because she's older and men generally seek to date younger. She probably wonders if you're serious about her. Her age probably also has you nitpicking her looks because you know she's going to continue aging and it's more in your face. Some guys tend to also like to show off their woman if she is good looking. So you probably feel the bad pics reflect poorly on you. I think the reality is, you are with this woman because she is someone to go out with that looks good, but you don't see long term with her. When we seek to break up with some our reticular activating system seeks to shift our perspective to see the person in a negative light. Have you ever noticed when you first start dating a woman that is really into you, she worships the ground you walk on and all your littler quirks are cute and hawt...and then when she starts the break up process (most women break up slowly so they can ease the emotional pain), suddenly all those things they loved about you they hate. Edited March 7, 2019 by TheFinalWord
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