smackie9 Posted March 7, 2019 Posted March 7, 2019 Wow OP this girl has been pullin your chain, watchin you run around, chasing her down when she had no intention of seeing you...you got duped harshly.
Author ice334 Posted March 9, 2019 Author Posted March 9, 2019 Wow OP this girl has been pullin your chain, watchin you run around, chasing her down when she had no intention of seeing you...you got duped harshly. **Update*** Yesterday (Last night) she texts me out the blue "Hey". (It shocked me she unblocked me and texted me) I decided not to reply back. 2 hours pass she texts again " I was going to say we can get up tonight but nevermind", i still decided not to reply until the next day (Today). Today i sent her a texted around 2pm today. I said " What time are you going to be free" and guess what? My number was BLOCKED AGAIN!. So i grab my friend's phone, not chasing but to really see what **** is her problem lol, and called her, she answered and i asked her "Yo , why you keep blockin my number"..i said it in a non chalant way ..it was quiet for some seconds and she said " Im about to unblock you"...she said it in a way as if she had no problem doing it..i said cool and i ended the convo. 1 min later i get a text saying " Hii" ( it was a text from her showing that she ublocked me), i texted her right back and followed up from her texts from last night and asked her what time will she be free, she texted back 40 min later with "Tonight", I never texted back and decided ill just hit her up later. 4 hours passed and i texted her asking her where she was at, no reply. An hour passed and still no reply. Before, i probally would have went to her door but i said forget it. So im at home now, i see she ended up opening the text but didn't reply , 15 min later, i see she was "Live" on her page..and guess what...she was at the house..saying she was BORED and basically got on LIVE to fill time talking to random people. She then said something about her homegirl suppose to be coming to pick her up, then later got off. She didnt know i was in her live. I wasnt stalking just was thrown off because i didnt get a reply back She texted me back 6 hours later at 12am. with " Wyd" i didnt see it until i woke up this morning, i havent texted her back. I really dont know what to do right now. Im thinking about not texting her back until tomorrow idk What you think is goin on? This **** is confusing
d0nnivain Posted March 9, 2019 Posted March 9, 2019 im gone hit her up again , and im not waiting too long...before monday in taking one last shot. Im either going to text her and tell her im pulling up or i might jusy show up.. UUUGGHHHHHH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Listen carefully. Texting her to tell her you are pulling up or just showing up is the PROBLEM. Stop doing that. It's disrespectful, arrogant, annoying & unwelcome. You can't expect her to jump because you snapped your fingers. A Lady wants to be asked out in advance. Until you learn to make plans this will never work. Call her. Talk to her. Listen to what she has to say. Be interested in her. Then ask her politely it she would like to go out with you on ___ [pick a day 2-3 days later so she has time to chose an outfit, do her make up etc. ] Have some respect for her time.
Art_Critic Posted March 9, 2019 Posted March 9, 2019 If this is what dating her and being in a relationship with her would be like I would run the heck away.. WTF... It seems you are both playing the coy pull away game, she does it to you and pulls you in and then you do it to her to pull her in all without any payday.. No payday no fun.. Stop chasing her and try to move on, the only way the chase stops is she has to let you catch her and she isn't going to do that. 1
Author ice334 Posted March 9, 2019 Author Posted March 9, 2019 If this is what dating her and being in a relationship with her would be like I would run the heck away.. WTF... It seems you are both playing the coy pull away game, she does it to you and pulls you in and then you do it to her to pull her in all without any payday.. No payday no fun.. Stop chasing her and try to move on, the only way the chase stops is she has to let you catch her and she isn't going to do that. I notcied the samething too SMH. Why is she doing it and she has other dudes she deals with plus other options.wtf!! Im sick of this now. 1
elaine567 Posted March 9, 2019 Posted March 9, 2019 Who taught you this style of chatting up women? Is this a cultural way of behaving? She seems interested but you consistently let her down by either not texting when you should and showing up to her place in your car expecting her to drop everything else going on in her life for you...
crispytoast Posted March 9, 2019 Posted March 9, 2019 Bruh becoz u actin like u got no game. Showed her your cards and u keep playin the same hand. Trying It's not gonna get u anywhere. Move on and next time u find someone u dig don't act like a possessive & obsessive fool
Author ice334 Posted March 9, 2019 Author Posted March 9, 2019 bruh becoz u actin like u got no game. Showed her your cards and u keep playin the same hand. Trying it's not gonna get u anywhere. Move on and next time u find someone u dig don't act like a possessive & obsessive fool read the update
Author ice334 Posted March 9, 2019 Author Posted March 9, 2019 Who taught you this style of chatting up women? Is this a cultural way of behaving? She seems interested but you consistently let her down by either not texting when you should and showing up to her place in your car expecting her to drop everything else going on in her life for you... Did you read update??
elaine567 Posted March 9, 2019 Posted March 9, 2019 Did you read update?? Yes it is full of "I decided not to reply" Why???
PhillyLibertyBelle Posted March 9, 2019 Posted March 9, 2019 2 weeks ago this chick basically start ignoring me cause she felt I was full of crap...I told her over the phone I was gone pull up later..she said "no your not" in a serious/direct /defensive way ...I pulled up hours later and texted her "Hey"..she replied with "What"..I said " come outside"...she said " for?"...I said we need to talk. she never replied..i pulled off.... I decided to pull up to her place 4 days later..she opened the door and was looking at me crazy and said hold on. When she came and got in the car , she wasn't really freakin out about it..she just said " oh yeah don't just be showing up to my house "..we talked for close to an hour, the vibe was good.. We had some planned and I needed her to contact somebody. Later that night i texted her and asked her if she ever got in touch with the person..she said " No" ( which was true because i texted the person and they never replies neither)..10 min later she sends me another text saying " Anyways what ya doing tonight?"..I texted her back and asked what she trying to do, I'll come get her now..she said " Okay but I'm at my GF's house I should be leaving in a min"....I said " I'll come get you from there"..she didn't reply right back so I texted again and she replied with " Okay and Wednesday don't make any plans"...I texted back and asked her where her GF live and she never opened it. 4 days later (Tuesday) I texted and asked her what's happening for tomorrow..she texted me back that night and said " What are ya doing tonight?" I didn't see it until Wednesday morning , I texted her and told her i was coming to get her today..she never replied. So later that day i still pull up to her house and texted her told her to come outside..she never texted back. So i pull off. 10 min later I receive a text saying " Okay but I'm not there", i never replied. The next day (Thursday) she texted me around 10pm with " What are you doing?" I was already in bed and just fell back asleep. Texted her back Friday morning and told her i was coming to get her today..she replied back later that evening with "Okay". 20 min later I text and told her I'm headed her way now..never got a reply back, i decided to pull up anyway..I got there and told her to come outside..4 min passed no reply..I get out and knocked on the door..I didn't think she was there..so I call..no answer...11 min later she texts " Ok I'm not there"..I texted her back " where you at, I'm gone, come get you now, you playin?"..she never replied just read it. Then an hour later she texts " Where you at" ..I texted and asked her where she was at...she texted back " Back at the house"...told her I was about to come back that way now..she only read it..no response. I still head there anyway. I get there 25 min later and text her to come outside..she never opened the message. So I call, got no answer. I then get out and knock on the door and started walking back to my car, I could see someone come to the door window looking, I didn't know who it was..I called her phone and no answer. So I goes back to the door and knock but no one came to the door or looked out the door window. I left. The next day (March 3rd) came and I texted her around 11am " I need you to cheat on your BF. I'm pulling back up today know that" " lol Matter of fact I'm about to pull up in a minute" ( I don't know if she got a bf or not, I just said something) i think she was sleep cause she didn't reply until 3pm and said " You not hearing from me anymore" I tried to text back 2 hours later and my number was blocked( that **** blew me away. I didn't expect that at all) So I call her from my friend's phone and asked her why she blocked my number, basically telling her she's freaking out, its was quiet for some seconds , she said " I blocked your number cause you do too much"..so I got to talking, she was listening for some seconds and I'm assuming it got awkward or some and she hung up . I called back like 5 min later and no answer. That was Sunday and I haven't tried to contact her since or tried to text to see if my # was unblocked..smh. What the f happen that quick??? This whole situation pissed me off...didn't expect it. This is fantastic
PhillyLibertyBelle Posted March 9, 2019 Posted March 9, 2019 I have no idea what’s happening here but i’m completely tickled pink!
smackie9 Posted March 9, 2019 Posted March 9, 2019 OP! damn it you are being fooled with for her enjoyment...she is getting her jollies out of watching you fall for it over and over..making you run after her....her girlies are probably sitting around with her laughing their heads off at you...you are so played.
preraph Posted March 9, 2019 Posted March 9, 2019 You know, I kinda think you are both the same way, kind of defensive, playing hard to get, but then coming on strong, but like neither of you can admit you are interested and just go have a civilized cup of coffee. I said before, it's like disrespect from both directions, so it's set up a big push/pull scenario. If you ask, she avoids. If she asks, you avoid. It's a lot of game playing, and neither of you are innocent of it. But I do agree with others that just inviting yourself over isn't usually going to put you high on the priority list, because it's skipping some steps.
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