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2 weeks ago this chick basically start curvin me cause she felt i was full of ****...i told her on her live i was gone pull up later..she said "no your not" in a serious/direct /defensive way ...i pulled up hours later and texted her "Yo"..she replied with "What"..i said " come outside"...she said " for"...i said we need to chop it up . she never replied..i pulled off....

 

I decided to pull up to her crib 4 days later..she opened the door and was looking at me crazy and said hold on. When she came and got in the car , she wasnt really trippin bout it..she just said " oh yeah dont just be showing up to my house "..we talked for close to an hour, the vibe was good.. We had some planned and i needed her to contact some body.

 

Later that night i texted her and asked her if she ever got in touch with the person..she said " No" ( which was true because i texted the person and they never replies neither)..10 min later she sends me another text saying " Anyways wyd tonight"..i texted her back and asked what she tryna do ill come get her now..she said " Okay but im at my homegirl house i should be leaving in a min"....i said " I'll come get you from there"..she didnt reply right back so i texted again and she replied with " Okay and Wednesday dont make no plans"...i texted back and asked her where her homegirl stay and she never opened it.

 

4 days later (Tuesday) i texted and asked her what was up with tomorrow..she texted me back that night and said " Wyd tonight" i aint see it until Wednesday morning , i texted her and told her i was coming to get her today..she never replied. So later thay day i still pull up to her crib and texted her told her to come outside..she never texted back. So i pull off. 10 min later i receive a text saying " Okay but im not there", i never replied.

 

The next day (Thursday) she texted me around 10pm with " Wyd" i was already in bed and just fell back asleep. Texted her back friday morning and told her i was coming to get her today..she replied back later that evening with "Okay". 20 min later i text and told her im headed her way now..never got a reply back, i decided to pull up anyway..i got there and told her to come outside..4 min passed no reply..i get out and knocked on the door..i didnt think she was there..so i call..no answer...11 min later she texts " Ok im not there"..i texted her back " where you at, im gone come get you now, you playin"..she never replied just read it. Then an hour later she texts " Where you at" ..i texted and asked her where she was at...she texted back " Back at the house"...told her i was about to come back that way now..she only read it..no response. I still head there anyway.

 

I get there 25 min later and text her to come outside..she never opened the message. So i call,no answer, i then get out and Knock on the door and started walking back to my car, i could see someone come to the door window looking, i didnt know who it was..i called her phone and no answer. So i goes back to the door and knock but no one came to the door or looked out the door window.

I left.

 

The next day (March 3rd) came and i texted her around 11am " I need you to cheat on that n**ga tonight, Im pulling back up today know that" " lol Matter of fact im about to pull up in a minute" ( i dont know if she got a bf or not, i just said something) i think she was sleep cause she didnt reply until 3pm and said " You not hearing from me no more" i tried to text back 2 hours later and my number was blocked( that **** blew me didnt expect that at all) So i call her from my friend's phone and asked her why she blocked my number, basically telling her she trippin , its was quiet for some seconds , she said " I blocked your number cause you do too much"..so i got to talking, she was listening for some seconds and im assuming it got awkward or some and she hung up . I called back like 5 min later and no answer. That was sunday and i havent tried to contact her since or tried to text to see if my # was unblocked..smh.

 

What tf happen that quick??? This whole situation blew me...didnt expect it

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This is a joke, right?

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This is a joke, right?

 

it must be..

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You can't just be pullin up to a lady's house like that dawg that's some mark ass sh*t and yeah she's right you're doing waaaaay too mothaf*ckin much. I'd say more but really these tracks explain it much better than I ever could so peep game

 

 

 

I really hope this isn't a joke :)

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Lol I hope this is a joke because it made my day :lmao:

 

But if it wasn’t ..maybe you’re coming off too strong pulling up to her house uninvited like that. Don’t be a stalker. Give her a few days try to chill out and try to text and maybe she unblocked you by then if not maybe she’ll reach out if not I’d drop it homie.

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Come again?

 

Plain English, OP.

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I just realized i was coming on TOO strong!! I dont onow if i fully blew or what but im going to give it a shot ONE MORE time if it doesnt go in my favor...forget. Lesson learned. Apprciate you guys

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I don't understand why you spent so much time chasing this one particular girl. It was obvious she was curving you in the beginning. Lose her number and don't text her again. She's a player.

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I'm not even sure what I just read.

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Look, a female just told me i " Might" still got a chance the fact she "Told" me why she blocked me and even listened for a couple of seconds, even tho i still annoyed her and she hung up..she said she wouldnt have even told me , she would have just hung up...not saying its a "high" chance but worth a try...what do you all think?

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Next move is try calling her from a jail phone, any annoyance she has for you will flip to concern and she will instantly fall in macaroni with you

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Stop turning up at her house. She told you to stop doing that. You that thirsty for her?

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You totally blew it. To put it politely you were rude to her. You were demanding. You used foul language. You had no sense of her time or her space.

 

This woman is through with you. Going forward, be more respectful of the people you would like to date. If you say please, thank you & you really listen you will be more successful. Demanding that some one come outside on your schedule by just showing up is not helpful.

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When they say "maybe" it's always a definite NO!

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Well, she didn't like your approach from the beginning and knocked you back about it. But then she caved and thought maybe she'd got you trained right.

 

She's got other things going on and isn't real interested, plus she sounds pretty unreliable. Could be dope or alcohol or just young and busy --- likely both.

 

So she's just shining you on, giving you a hard time, and not very interested. Quit chasing her. You're both kind of playing with each other. Find someone you can have a "friendly" talk with instead of dualing with each other. Not healthy. Chaotic.

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Yeah i see i did too much and was coming on waaaay too strong but im gone hit her up again , and im not waiting too long...before monday in taking one last shot. Im either going to text her and tell her im pulling up or i might jusy show up. Forget it. I already kind or think i waited too long already.

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What kind of car do you drive

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Do people really speak like this? And just drive up in front of somebody's house and think that's cool or something?

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Yeah i see i did too much and was coming on waaaay too strong but im gone hit her up again , and im not waiting too long...before monday in taking one last shot. Im either going to text her and tell her im pulling up or i might jusy show up. Forget it. I already kind or think i waited too long already.

 

I'd let her chill. She's not giving an inch, you know. She's just causing you misery. Why chase that? I think the root of the problem is you're both being disrespectful to each other but in different ways.

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Yeah i see i did too much and was coming on waaaay too strong but im gone hit her up again , and im not waiting too long...before monday in taking one last shot. Im either going to text her and tell her im pulling up or i might jusy show up. Forget it. I already kind or think i waited too long already.

 

 

How about asking her if she'd like to get together and do something instead of just showing up at her house? Coffee, McD's, or similar? Then when you show up she's (hopefully) in a friendly mood.

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How about asking her if she'd like to get together and do something instead of just showing up at her house? Coffee, McD's, or similar? Then when you show up she's (hopefully) in a friendly mood.

 

Its crazy i actually thought about that but didnt want it to seem like i im " Kissing her a***" being the fact that ive never even hit her up with nothinf like that before smh

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I'm not even sure what I just read.

 

I put it in google translate and got nothing.

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I put it in google translate and got nothing.

Try Snoop Dogg's Gansta to English Dictionary.:lmao:

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2 weeks ago this chick basically start ignoring me cause she felt I was full of crap...I told her over the phone I was gone pull up later..she said "no your not" in a serious/direct /defensive way ...I pulled up hours later and texted her "Hey"..she replied with "What"..I said " come outside"...she said " for?"...I said we need to talk. she never replied..i pulled off....

 

I decided to pull up to her place 4 days later..she opened the door and was looking at me crazy and said hold on. When she came and got in the car , she wasn't really freakin out about it..she just said " oh yeah don't just be showing up to my house "..we talked for close to an hour, the vibe was good.. We had some planned and I needed her to contact somebody.

 

Later that night i texted her and asked her if she ever got in touch with the person..she said " No" ( which was true because i texted the person and they never replies neither)..10 min later she sends me another text saying " Anyways what ya doing tonight?"..I texted her back and asked what she trying to do, I'll come get her now..she said " Okay but I'm at my GF's house I should be leaving in a min"....I said " I'll come get you from there"..she didn't reply right back so I texted again and she replied with " Okay and Wednesday don't make any plans"...I texted back and asked her where her GF live and she never opened it.

 

4 days later (Tuesday) I texted and asked her what's happening for tomorrow..she texted me back that night and said " What are ya doing tonight?" I didn't see it until Wednesday morning , I texted her and told her i was coming to get her today..she never replied. So later that day i still pull up to her house and texted her told her to come outside..she never texted back. So i pull off. 10 min later I receive a text saying " Okay but I'm not there", i never replied.

 

The next day (Thursday) she texted me around 10pm with " What are you doing?" I was already in bed and just fell back asleep. Texted her back Friday morning and told her i was coming to get her today..she replied back later that evening with "Okay". 20 min later I text and told her I'm headed her way now..never got a reply back, i decided to pull up anyway..I got there and told her to come outside..4 min passed no reply..I get out and knocked on the door..I didn't think she was there..so I call..no answer...11 min later she texts " Ok I'm not there"..I texted her back " where you at, I'm gone, come get you now, you playin?"..she never replied just read it. Then an hour later she texts " Where you at" ..I texted and asked her where she was at...she texted back " Back at the house"...told her I was about to come back that way now..she only read it..no response. I still head there anyway.

 

I get there 25 min later and text her to come outside..she never opened the message. So I call, got no answer. I then get out and knock on the door and started walking back to my car, I could see someone come to the door window looking, I didn't know who it was..I called her phone and no answer. So I goes back to the door and knock but no one came to the door or looked out the door window.

I left.

 

The next day (March 3rd) came and I texted her around 11am " I need you to cheat on your BF. I'm pulling back up today know that" " lol Matter of fact I'm about to pull up in a minute" ( I don't know if she got a bf or not, I just said something) i think she was sleep cause she didn't reply until 3pm and said " You not hearing from me anymore" I tried to text back 2 hours later and my number was blocked( that **** blew me away. I didn't expect that at all) So I call her from my friend's phone and asked her why she blocked my number, basically telling her she's freaking out, its was quiet for some seconds , she said " I blocked your number cause you do too much"..so I got to talking, she was listening for some seconds and I'm assuming it got awkward or some and she hung up . I called back like 5 min later and no answer. That was Sunday and I haven't tried to contact her since or tried to text to see if my # was unblocked..smh.

 

What the f happen that quick??? This whole situation pissed me off...didn't expect it.

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