smackie9 Posted March 5, 2019 Posted March 5, 2019 My husband has done this to me when we are out at car shows...he will start chewing some person's ear off....I just disappear and make him find me lol. 3
stillafool Posted March 5, 2019 Posted March 5, 2019 My husband has done this to me when we are out at car shows...he will start chewing some person's ear off....I just disappear and make him find me lol. This is how I would handle it.
Happy Lemming Posted March 5, 2019 Posted March 5, 2019 My husband has done this to me when we are out at car shows...he will start chewing some person's ear off....I just disappear and make him find me lol. Yes... something similar happened to me when my girlfriend and I went to a Home Improvement show, there were several products I wanted to look at. I got some good advice and contacts. My girlfriend got bored while I was talking to someone about outdoor stone & ground cover, so she headed to the food court and tried various items of interest. I found her later "fat and happy". (playing on her phone) 1
elaine567 Posted March 5, 2019 Posted March 5, 2019 My husband has done this to me when we are out at car shows...he will start chewing some person's ear off....I just disappear and make him find me lol. That is a completely different scenario. This was a one on one "date" at a pub. 1
crispytoast Posted March 5, 2019 Posted March 5, 2019 I find it noteworthy that over in the General Relationship section, there's a post about a guys gf grinding on and making out with another man at a party and people are telling him "it's ok man it's really not a big deal" and then here people are trying to crucify this guy for wanting to talk motorcycles with his friend at a bar. 1
elaine567 Posted March 5, 2019 Posted March 5, 2019 I find it noteworthy that over in the General Relationship section, there's a post about a guys gf grinding on and making out with another man at a party and people are telling him "it's ok man it's really not a big deal" and then here people are trying to crucify this guy for wanting to talk motorcycles with his friend at a bar. I commented on that thread too, I did not say it was "Not a big deal man".
Wallysbears Posted March 5, 2019 Posted March 5, 2019 I'd have ordered a 2nd glass of wine and an appetizer while he was chatting...and likely struck up a conversation with whomever was nearby. This sort of thing doesn't phase me at all. Seriously think some of the reactions to this are WAY over the top. 3
crispytoast Posted March 5, 2019 Posted March 5, 2019 I didn't say that you didn't think it's a big deal elaine, I said that's a thing that's happening in that thread. It was food for thought, not a personal attack on you or anybody else.
Calmandfocused Posted March 5, 2019 Posted March 5, 2019 I don’t think his behaviour was intentional. I don’t believe he meant to ignore you and hurt you the way he has. I believe that he got carried away with the conversation and that it simply didn’t occur to him that you was waiting for him. Here lies the issue! I think that if I man can “forget” about you whilst you’re with him it’s a bad sign. I disagree with the posters that have said it was up to you to introduce yourself. That was his job to do that! The fact that this didn’t even occur to him would make me question how much value this man places on me and our relationship. Also what’s bugging me is the fact that you’ve been together 7 months but still only see each other at weekends and it doesn’t seem like the relationship is progressing. 1
smackie9 Posted March 5, 2019 Posted March 5, 2019 (edited) That is a completely different scenario. This was a one on one "date" at a pub. And this is how I would handled it...I would have disappeared in the bar, maybe have shots with the bartender and put it on the BF's bill. Edited March 5, 2019 by smackie9 3
stillafool Posted March 6, 2019 Posted March 6, 2019 I find it noteworthy that over in the General Relationship section, there's a post about a guys gf grinding on and making out with another man at a party and people are telling him "it's ok man it's really not a big deal" and then here people are trying to crucify this guy for wanting to talk motorcycles with his friend at a bar. Welcome to LoveShack. 2
Mrs._December Posted March 6, 2019 Posted March 6, 2019 I'm pretty floored that people are actually saying 'he LOST TRACK of time." Seriously? He knew exactly what he was doing. Unless he has to wear a helmet in public, he's not THAT clueless. It was rude as hell to disappear for half an hour and then turn around and add TO that half hour by sitting at the guy's table after he went to the bathroom. Rude and obnoxious behavior. I would have ordered their most expensive steak dinner - to go - charged it to his tab, then carried it out of the place with me to my friend who was waiting to drive me home. There's 'losing track of time' and there's being a complete ass-hole and leaving your date alone while you're chatting with your buddy for 45 minutes or more. He was the latter. 2
preraph Posted March 6, 2019 Posted March 6, 2019 Look, you said yourself he has a horrible upbringing. That means he doesn't know how to be a good partner nor a good father. Not a keeper, sorry. When you have kids, is he going to just leave them somewhere and forget about them? 1
crispytoast Posted March 6, 2019 Posted March 6, 2019 Because people with a horrible upbringing don't deserve love? I know lots of people with horrible upbringings who are excellent partners and lovers. And I know lots of people with good upbringings who are horrible people. 1
smackie9 Posted March 6, 2019 Posted March 6, 2019 She was not generalizing....just suspects this could be why HIS behavior is like this.
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