Going out with other girls

[somelamedude]

My last thread didn't go anywhere, and I'm still interested in this one girl who I rarely texted but went out on an amazing first date a couple weeks back. She has ADHD and it may be the cause for her lack of responses. I forgot to mention that, and most of you told me to just move on, which I did.

 

The thing is, I have one girl who is wanting to meet up, who is super sweet, but I'm not really attracted to. She's a huge flirt and is trying to nab down a guy. She admitted never having a successful relationship and wants to change that. She's also a single mom with two baby daddies. I've flaked on her twice.

 

Another single mom who is at the university I once attended but plan on going back to also wants to go out. She got herself pregnant by the sperm bank. She felt she wasn't going to meet the one, and wanted to be a parent. She's very devoted and wants more kids. I think she's kinda hot.. but not sure what to think about the pacing because she seems to want to kinda rush things.

 

There were two more other girls who I ended up getting rid of their numbers because one was way too clingy and got pissed that I didn't make her the center of attention, and the other was into that creepy asterisks role playing crap.

 

Just tonight on one of my dating apps, I was just asked out by a very cute girl who thankfully isn't a single mom and to my knowledge is normal.. however both the cute single mom and this cute new girl want to go out this upcoming week. I do want to meet them but I don't want to go out with one of them and then the very next day go out with another and have them bump into each other.. that would look bad.

 

As for the first girl, I'm still very much interested, and I know I should move on since she does drugs, but out of all the girls, I actually did go out with her and very much want to go out again.. should I send a message to them after I haven't talked to them for a couple of weeks that I'm ok with their ADHD and being open to being 420 friendly, or should I just let it go and pursue my new options?

 

Also with the single mom I'm not too terribly attracted to, should I give her a change?

 

Anyways what's the loving community on here's recommendation? The reason why I'm going out a lot to catch people up to speed was last year I ended a 5 year relationship that went no where and I'm testing the waters again.

[d0nnivain]

Why would they bump into each other? Just take them different places.

 

It's OK to multi-date, just don't like & tell some body that they are the only person you are dating if that is not true.

 

I think you need to go out on dates with different people so you can get a better handle on who they are. You really can't tell much from a website profile.

[smackie9]

You haven't been out with any of them yet so you shouldn't worry about anything. It is expected to be going out on dates with other people. If the first date goes really well, and you really like them, then cancel the other date and go out with the girl you hit it off with. There's always a work around, you just adjust as you go along. You can date as many as you want if there is no exclusivity.