d0nnivain Posted March 5, 2019 Posted March 5, 2019 I know they are current because I've seen her social media and she posted 2 weeks ago she loves him. I know he just wants sex but he is so freaking hot and he thinks I dont know about his girlfriend. Maybe I want some fun. Why not? Not my fault he wants to cheat on her. If you are DTF, knowing he's a lying cheater, go for it but as someone else cautioned, karma will most likely bit you in the tush. At a minimum use STD protections because you are most likely not his only partner & he probably doesn't take the best care to prevent the spread of disease. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted March 5, 2019 Posted March 5, 2019 Why not, OP? Well, I would hope you can do better than this. Surely you have higher standards for the men you let in your bed? If you decide to proceed, at least use protection. Understand that you're very unlikely to be the only other girl he sleeps with on the side. You're probably just one of a few he has on the go at any given time.
stillafool Posted March 5, 2019 Posted March 5, 2019 This just proves that looks mean as much to women as they do men. Just because he's "hawt" you want to jump into bed with him. You will end up falling in love but he won't love you back and then the obsession will continue. You will end up paying a price for knowingly cheating with someone else's man. 2
kendahke Posted March 5, 2019 Posted March 5, 2019 I know they are current because I've seen her social media and she posted 2 weeks ago she loves him. I know he just wants sex but he is so freaking hot and he thinks I dont know about his girlfriend. Maybe I want some fun. Why not? Not my fault he wants to cheat on her. So you're going to be one of those kinds of chicks? Messy messy messy... This isn't going to turn out well for you...
Author Britney25 Posted March 5, 2019 Author Posted March 5, 2019 Wow most of you are very biased. Its always the womens fault...guess what if I haven't checked out his social media I would have though he was single. Nothing happened yet and maybe nothing will because so far I think he doesnt have the guts to set a date, all he does is talk about hooking up...so not sure what's up with that. 2
olivetree Posted March 5, 2019 Posted March 5, 2019 I know they are current because I've seen her social media and she posted 2 weeks ago she loves him. I know he just wants sex but he is so freaking hot and he thinks I dont know about his girlfriend. Maybe I want some fun. Why not? Not my fault he wants to cheat on her. If that's the kind of person you want to be, go for it. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted March 5, 2019 Posted March 5, 2019 (edited) Wow most of you are very biased. Its always the womens fault...guess what if I haven't checked out his social media I would have though he was single. Nothing happened yet and maybe nothing will because so far I think he doesnt have the guts to set a date, all he does is talk about hooking up...so not sure what's up with that. Nobody said that. What we are saying is that if you choose the action, you choose the consequences. Knowing he has a girlfriend, you would be making an informed decision to get involved with a skeevy dude. If skeevy dudes are your jam, have at it. I don't think anyone will be sad that a tool like this is being kept occupied. Edited March 5, 2019 by ExpatInItaly 3
preraph Posted March 6, 2019 Posted March 6, 2019 Hey, if all you want is sex, then just tell him "Sex, no strings" and he'll come trotting right along like most men would. But then don't be a dope and start thinking you'll change him or that he'll CARE about you. 1
angelfire138 Posted March 6, 2019 Posted March 6, 2019 Because he's bored of his g/f, looking for a side piece, wants some fun on the side, to name a few. He won't leave his g/f for you. Don't do it. I hooked up with a guy with a g/f once (no sex though) when I was at a particularly vulnerable stage in my life, years back, and I regret that ever happened. It's also bad karma. 1
Andy_K Posted March 6, 2019 Posted March 6, 2019 I know they are current because I've seen her social media and she posted 2 weeks ago she loves him. I know he just wants sex but he is so freaking hot and he thinks I dont know about his girlfriend. Maybe I want some fun. Why not? Not my fault he wants to cheat on her. Given how ridiculously easy it is for most girls to get NSA sex from a decent looking guy, can't you at least get one who doesn't have a girlfriend? 2
d0nnivain Posted March 6, 2019 Posted March 6, 2019 Wow most of you are very biased. Its always the womens fault...guess what if I haven't checked out his social media I would have though he was single. Nothing happened yet and maybe nothing will because so far I think he doesnt have the guts to set a date, all he does is talk about hooking up...so not sure what's up with that. No it's not your fault that HE chose to cheat with you. It is your fault that once you found out he was not single you chose to participate anyway. Where is the upside for you? He will never be fully yours. Even if he leaves her for you, what have you won? Remember if they cheat with you they will most likely cheat on you. Is that what you want? 1
stillafool Posted March 6, 2019 Posted March 6, 2019 Wow most of you are very biased. Its always the womens fault...guess what if I haven't checked out his social media I would have though he was single. Nothing happened yet and maybe nothing will because so far I think he doesnt have the guts to set a date, all he does is talk about hooking up...so not sure what's up with that. If he's that hot I doubt you are the only woman trying to get him to cheat on his gf and have sex so why should he be rushing you. It's probably enough for him that you are giving him the ego boost he needs to bang the crap out of his gf.
BaileyB Posted March 6, 2019 Posted March 6, 2019 No it's not your fault that HE chose to cheat with you. It is your fault that once you found out he was not single you chose to participate anyway. A woman with strong integrity and good character would not consider going on a date or having sex with a man who is dating/married to another woman. It’s Maya Angelou’s famous quote - “when you know better, you do better.” Send him away, tell him to go rub up against someone else... 1
kendahke Posted March 6, 2019 Posted March 6, 2019 .guess what if I haven't checked out his social media I would have though he was single. that is why you open your mouth and ask him "do you have a girlfriend? You know I can just go check on social media..." when he brings this mess to you. Nothing happened yet and maybe nothing will because so far I think he doesnt have the guts to set a date, all he does is talk about hooking up...so not sure what's up with that. If this was your boyfriend, what would you want us to tell the chick he was trying to mess with behind your back? 1
preraph Posted March 6, 2019 Posted March 6, 2019 Given how ridiculously easy it is for most girls to get NSA sex from a decent looking guy, can't you at least get one who doesn't have a girlfriend? ^ This. When I was young there was lots of no strings sex, but it was actually rare you knew the guy had a woman already, whether the did or not. If you KNOW he does, do yourself a favor and move on. You can get just sex anywhere by whispering in just about any guy's ear "I just want to have sex and nothing more" and then keeping to your promise to leave them alone.
Author Britney25 Posted March 7, 2019 Author Posted March 7, 2019 If he's that hot I doubt you are the only woman trying to get him to cheat on his gf and have sex so why should he be rushing you. It's probably enough for him that you are giving him the ego boost he needs to bang the crap out of his gf. So that's all he wants? An ego boost? He's not going to go through with it?
Author Britney25 Posted March 7, 2019 Author Posted March 7, 2019 I really think he is breadcrumbing me because he textes flirty comments and things like cant wait to see you but never set ups a date to see me. What kind of lame booty call is this?
ExpatInItaly Posted March 7, 2019 Posted March 7, 2019 I really think he is breadcrumbing me because he textes flirty comments and things like cant wait to see you but never set ups a date to see me. What kind of lame booty call is this? It's exactly the type of lame booty call you can expect from a guy who has a girlfriend. She comes first, so if she calls or makes plans to see him, he's going to go to her before he ever sees you. Otherwise, she'd catch on to what he's doing. You will always be the back-up plan, and you'll never know when he's going to suddenly be available. He could also be juggling a few of you at the same time (and my guess is that he is) so you're just someone he reaches out to when the others aren't responding. Whether he sleeps with you or not, it's all an ego boost for him. It makes him feel good that other women want him and he can still get tail at the snap of his fingers. Believe me when I say it's not a compliment to you, from his perspective.
d0nnivain Posted March 7, 2019 Posted March 7, 2019 I really think he is breadcrumbing me because he textes flirty comments and things like cant wait to see you but never set ups a date to see me. What kind of lame booty call is this? You already know he's a cheater. Now you are waking up to the fact that he's a liar. How good do you think the sex is actually going to be? Is he really worth all this?
BaileyB Posted March 7, 2019 Posted March 7, 2019 I really think he is breadcrumbing me because he textes flirty comments and things like cant wait to see you but never set ups a date to see me. What kind of lame booty call is this? It’s lame. That’s what we’ve been saying. The fact that you have high expectations of a man who is attempting to cheat on his girlfriend is lame. The whole thing is lame. 2
kendahke Posted March 7, 2019 Posted March 7, 2019 I really think he is breadcrumbing me because he textes flirty comments and things like cant wait to see you but never set ups a date to see me. What kind of lame booty call is this? one he knows will work on you because here you are... this is how low he estimates you---he knows he doesn't have to come correct to you. Looks like you're making a meal out of those breadcrumbs... 1
smackie9 Posted March 7, 2019 Posted March 7, 2019 Looks like you're making a meal out of those breadcrumbs... This ^^^^100% 3
Normm Posted March 7, 2019 Posted March 7, 2019 You sound like you're attention starved and craving any ounce of affection some random guy throws in your direction, and you'll sleep with him at the drop of a hat even if it's not going anywhere because he's got a girlfriend. Sure you can do as you please, it's a free country as long as you're not breaking any laws but is this really what you want to do with your life? Screw any random guy who is looking to add a few notches to his belt because you've got low self esteem and see this as some sort of compliment? Because, well it isn't. 1
fred123 Posted March 7, 2019 Posted March 7, 2019 man i wish i was that hot as this guy. women respond very differently when they know i just want sex. damn im jealous
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