Author PsXtreme Posted March 4, 2019 Author Posted March 4, 2019 As of right now, I am making sure I am always there for her when she needs shifts covered and I am working my ass off to show her I am a hard worker. I am also trying to respect her boundries, but maybe you guys can tell me if this is another sign she likes me. We were stocking the last of the stuff from the truck the other day and we were stocking the same shelf. We got so close to each other I could have easily touched her and I really had to make an effort not to touch her because you couldnt put a piece of paper between us. She kinda teases me a little bit and tells me I have to get each pallet done in an hour which is impossible. Also, when I texted her yesterday she responded immediately and normally she takes a few to get back to me. I just dont want to screw this up anymore than I already have.
smackie9 Posted March 4, 2019 Posted March 4, 2019 Ever hear of coworker bonding? It's intimate in a way, but nothing sexual....kind of like a strong fondness you have for family. Women can do this very easily, while men (not all) have their head in their pants. I suggest you stop seeking out signals/movements to analyze those interactions with her. When one has strong feelings for someone, they see things that are not really there. So stop doing it! Now, if a coworker comes up to you and asks "What's going on between you two?" then you may have something there.
Author PsXtreme Posted March 4, 2019 Author Posted March 4, 2019 I guess I will try to make small talk with her, but keep everything professorial then. I have definitely learned alot about myself over the past few weeks. Since last week I have been smiling alot more and trying to seem happy (I feel like I am faking this because I really want to date this chick). I had a customer tell me I used to go around the store looking pissed off all the time and that she was glad to see I am much happier and smiling because I am handsome. Then a few days later when I worked the other store for my boss the girl I worked with also said I seemed happier than when she worked with me at my store over the holidays. So apparently I look like I am pissed off all the time. Plus I have learned that when a girl asks me if I am single and then tells me she is, I need to ask her out right then and there.
Grey40 Posted March 4, 2019 Posted March 4, 2019 I guess I will try to make small talk with her, but keep everything professorial then. I have definitely learned alot about myself over the past few weeks. Since last week I have been smiling alot more and trying to seem happy (I feel like I am faking this because I really want to date this chick). I had a customer tell me I used to go around the store looking pissed off all the time and that she was glad to see I am much happier and smiling because I am handsome. Then a few days later when I worked the other store for my boss the girl I worked with also said I seemed happier than when she worked with me at my store over the holidays. So apparently I look like I am pissed off all the time. Plus I have learned that when a girl asks me if I am single and then tells me she is, I need to ask her out right then and there. Dude, stop with the analyzing whether or not she likes you, it’s counterproductive. ASK. HER. OUT. Don’t be afraid. There’s nothing wrong with doing that. And don’t wait for the promotion either, just go for it. Trust me. Best case scenario she says yes, worst case scenario she says no or dodges it and then you can move on and stop worrying so much about whether she likes you.
preraph Posted March 4, 2019 Posted March 4, 2019 If she's your boss, then I think she was just trying to get to know her employee a little maybe. If she wasn't your boss and had no reason to come talk to you like that, I'd maybe think differently. But bosses kind of try to know the people they're over and form a work bond. It's good she's trying to help you advance. Her being your boss, I am just not sure I'd ask her out. It's sort of risky, but not as risky as her asking you out. Why don't you do this: Have a small party at your home, either a game day or barbecue or to watch the Kentucky Derby, tennis match, or if you know she likes a certain movie type, a movie showing. Have something like that going on in the background to keep people busy but where you can still be up socializing. Try to make it last 2-3 hours. A cocktail party with snacks is fine, or you can do a Sunday afternoon thing. Invite her and a few of your friends. Tell her she can bring a friend or a date or no one. Have maybe 12 people if possible. See if she gets any more informal with you in informal circumstances or if this opens the gate to a real date.
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