bradt93 Posted March 3, 2019 Posted March 3, 2019 I was just wanting to have a conversation with a friend from school on FB and this is what I got. I'm posting the conversation below. Im not interest chit chatting about dumb **** and I don't need a man... I already have one He's fabulous Well Okay. I really don't care I made a mistake I thought we were friends. Brad when will you ever learn? I already know you're lying anyways, you don't have a man. And that was the end of the conversation. I blocked her on FB. I don't believe she has a man, because she was saying that not to hurt my feelings. I checked her relationship status on FB and it doesn't say anything. It used to say single a couple of weeks ago. Did I do the mature thing and just unfriended her and blocked her? I mean you just go on right?
Author bradt93 Posted March 3, 2019 Author Posted March 3, 2019 Screw it, I will hire an escort. Their must be something I'm not doing right to attract women or I'm not meant to have a relationship.
FMW Posted March 3, 2019 Posted March 3, 2019 Your post is kind of confusing. You said you were having a chat with a friend, but it appears it (for you at least) is a romantic interest. It seems maybe she was being rude and/or telling you she wasn't interested in chatting or pursuing anything with you. Without context, the conversation you shared doesn't merit blocking and unfriending anyone. It comes off as an impulsive and emotional move - not mature. On either of your parts. There are plenty of women out there. Go meet some new ones. 1
Author bradt93 Posted March 3, 2019 Author Posted March 3, 2019 Well, I don't like being lied too saying she has a man and she doesn't. I mean seriously do all women do this? Just come out and say I'm not interested.
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted March 3, 2019 Posted March 3, 2019 Why do you think she said you'll never learn?
Author bradt93 Posted March 4, 2019 Author Posted March 4, 2019 Why do you think she said you'll never learn? I said that to myself to her just to let out frustration.
Author bradt93 Posted March 4, 2019 Author Posted March 4, 2019 what was the point of your charade? The point of this "charade" is that I would appreciate the truth and not lie to me just to spare my feelings. I know she doesn't have a b/f, but she can be truthful with me.
alphamale Posted March 4, 2019 Posted March 4, 2019 The point of this "charade" is that I would appreciate the truth and not lie to me just to spare my feelings. I know she doesn't have a b/f, but she can be truthful with me. let people lie in the beds they have made
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted March 4, 2019 Posted March 4, 2019 I said that to myself to her just to let out frustration. So only the parts I have bolded were things SHE said? Im not interest chit chatting about dumb **** and I don't need a man... I already have one He's fabulous Well Okay. I really don't care I made a mistake I thought we were friends. Brad when will you ever learn? I already know you're lying anyways, you don't have a man.
5x5 Posted March 4, 2019 Posted March 4, 2019 (edited) Did I do the mature thing and just unfriended her and blocked her? I mean you just go on right? I think you should keep blocking her, because she could do without you calling her a liar and all the rest. Are you privy to all of her private life? Are you with her when she goes out? Do you know all of her friends? Do you know what she is doing any given day, hour or minute. Do you know who she is with at this very moment you read this post? Are you a mind reader? Do you have special powers that no-one else does? Her facebook status is not proof that she is or isn't in a relationship with anyone. So please try to calm down. Unless your goal is to come off as unhinged, in the absence of proof you would do well to avoid accusing women of lying to you. Edited March 4, 2019 by 5x5 1
Author bradt93 Posted March 4, 2019 Author Posted March 4, 2019 So only the parts I have bolded were things SHE said? Im not interest chit chatting about dumb **** and I don't need a man... I already have one He's fabulous Well Okay. I really don't care I made a mistake I thought we were friends. Brad when will you ever learn? I already know you're lying anyways, you don't have a man. Yes, you are correct.
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted March 4, 2019 Posted March 4, 2019 Why do you think she told you she wasn't interested in chatting about "dumb ****?" Why were you trying to? And why would you accuse her of lying???
Happy Lemming Posted March 4, 2019 Posted March 4, 2019 Based on your previous posts, it appears you are "mining" old acquaintances from school/college in an attempt to turn them into some type of romantic interest. (ie the realtor lady and now this individual) My advice, put down the laptop or phone, go out into the real world and try to meet real people. Do you have the ability to strike up a conversation (with a woman) at a local pub/bar?? If so, try that... but be ready for rejection, though. You need to realize that rejection is part of the game. You have to have the ability to brush it off and move on to the next one. Although, I don't know a lot about FB or other forms of social media, your unfriending/blocking seems to be a "knee jerk" response to any type of rejection. I truly believe there is a lid for every pot. You just need to seek her out. And again, be prepared for rejection and have the ability to deal with it without getting upset.
elaine567 Posted March 4, 2019 Posted March 4, 2019 OK so what did you say before she said."Im not interest chit chatting about dumb **** and I don't need a man... I already have one He's fabulous"
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