DK092 Posted March 1, 2019 Posted March 1, 2019 Hey guys, had a date with a cute girl on tuesday whom I met online. We got along really well and arranged another date on monday. During our time together she brought up how busy she is with work and that it could be that she has to cancel the date on monday because she often has to step in for another work colleague so I already expected that I will probably not see her on monday (or ever again the way things are now). The day after, I texted her that I had a great time and am excited for round two and asked how her day is, then she immediately went on to say that she is still at work but is free later. As I told her that I can pick her up she said she didn't wnt me to because someone else already did that. I remained cool and just texted okay. At this point I already assumed she lost interest in me because she is either seeing someone else and found someone better than me (which is common nowadays) or because my text game sucks. A day went by without texting and today she cancelled our date because she has to step in for her colleague and she didnt offer another time so I told her its fine. Since she already turned me down twice so I stopped making an effort and also took some hours to reply to her texts (around 4 hours). The last message I sent her was that I am free tomorrow and on tuesday but that after that my schedule will be tight and she hasn't replied since. What do you think?
preraph Posted March 1, 2019 Posted March 1, 2019 Yeah, what she said ^. Just wait and see if she makes the effort or not. Dating isn't any kind of commitment. It's just an agreement to see what each other is like. Sometimes you don't have to go on a date to find that out! It could be week nights are not good for her due to work.
lurker74 Posted March 1, 2019 Posted March 1, 2019 (edited) No evidence from that description that you care too much. It's certainly possible. And being nice can cause issues, especially with younger or at least less mature women. So remember this poem (and no, it's not actually by Mother Theresa): People are often unreasonable, irrational, and self-centered. Forgive them anyway. If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives. Be kind anyway. If you are successful, you will win some unfaithful friends and some genuine enemies. Succeed anyway. If you are honest and sincere people may deceive you. Be honest and sincere anyway. What you spend years creating, others could destroy overnight. Create anyway. If you find serenity and happiness, some may be jealous. Be happy anyway. The good you do today, will often be forgotten. Do good anyway. Give the best you have, and it will never be enough. Give your best anyway. In the final analysis, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway. In other words, be who you are. And be thankful for the ones that self-select themselves out of your life. They were never going to be a part of it anyway. Edited March 1, 2019 by lurker74 1
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