lurker74 Posted March 1, 2019 Posted March 1, 2019 Here's why you should not ask her out: because you're on an internet forum asking if you should ask her out. That lacks the confidence that you would need to date a stripper. I dated one once - it was eye opening. Fun at times but ultimately tough because there's just such a low chance of relationship and fidelity. And I have a high confidence. Having said that, if you're up for some fun and you protect yourself from getting hurt, send her a text. "Hey Bubblegum...I'm going to be on your side of town Tuesday night. Let me buy you a drink and find out a bit about you outside of your work establishment?" If she hems or haws, text her, no worries. Good luck with everything. Then delete that number. And go out on a weeknight because she's chasing paper on weekends. 1
alphamale Posted March 2, 2019 Posted March 2, 2019 and you have to be ready to shell out some major $$$ if you want to be seen with her
Author RW M Posted March 7, 2019 Author Posted March 7, 2019 Here's why you should not ask her out: because you're on an internet forum asking if you should ask her out. That lacks the confidence that you would need to date a stripper. I dated one once - it was eye opening. Fun at times but ultimately tough because there's just such a low chance of relationship and fidelity. And I have a high confidence. Having said that, if you're up for some fun and you protect yourself from getting hurt, send her a text. "Hey Bubblegum...I'm going to be on your side of town Tuesday night. Let me buy you a drink and find out a bit about you outside of your work establishment?" If she hems or haws, text her, no worries. Good luck with everything. Then delete that number. And go out on a weeknight because she's chasing paper on weekends. Cheers bud. To let you guys know. I sent it, just to get it out of my system, asked about the night that she doesn't work in the week. It was a no. She just came back thanks for the offer, she won't be in the area as club closed that night. Just a customer obvs. Thanks for the advice guys. I'm sure I'll laugh about this one day 1
lolita888 Posted March 7, 2019 Posted March 7, 2019 Well judging from what you said... I do not really think she like you. She likes to flirt with you or maybe just a bit interested but not on that level where she will think of dating you. Maybe she find you good looking or cute the first time she saw you but after you invited her to go out outside of the club, she finally went back to her senses and realized you are just her customer and no different from the other guys. So she started to see you as one potential regular customer. She's disappointed that you weren't so. I have read somewhere about some strippers who actually had a serious relationship with their customers so I do not really think that just because they are into that kind of work then they can never fall for their customer and only see them as a cowcash. But this one do seems like she wanted you as a regular customer but not anything more.
Author RW M Posted March 7, 2019 Author Posted March 7, 2019 Well judging from what you said... I do not really think she like you. She likes to flirt with you or maybe just a bit interested but not on that level where she will think of dating you. Maybe she find you good looking or cute the first time she saw you but after you invited her to go out outside of the club, she finally went back to her senses and realized you are just her customer and no different from the other guys. So she started to see you as one potential regular customer. She's disappointed that you weren't so. I have read somewhere about some strippers who actually had a serious relationship with their customers so I do not really think that just because they are into that kind of work then they can never fall for their customer and only see them as a cowcash. But this one do seems like she wanted you as a regular customer but not anything more. I think you're right. I've just spoke to her on the phone actually. I'd deleted her no. and had a missed call from unrecognised no. She rang by mistake and said hope to see you soon. I said I prob won't go back to the club. She said I know, keep in touch. Little point from my perspective
ExpatInItaly Posted March 7, 2019 Posted March 7, 2019 Yeah, she is hoping you don't stop patronizing her club and lining her pockets, OP.
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