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Of the other dating apps like Tinder and Bumble, I have noticed that with OKC I either get no matches, or when I do, they do not respond after I contact them.

 

When I contact women directly, match or no match, they don’t respond.

 

Why am I getting different results with OKC?

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I used it long time ago and it was not bad. Questionnaire was entertaining.

 

Then they did Tom of change in the algorithms and could have ruined it that way... Haven’t used it in couple of years, but again in my time wasn’t bad at all.

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I am getting lots of spambot attention haha. OKC is probably location dependent; women could be a lot pickier on there.

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It used to be my fave until they ruined the algorithm - I think 2 years ago? I haven’t used it since.

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I used OK cupid before. The recipient can't see that you've sent a message unless she "likes" you. If you mean you've already liked each other and she has read your messages but won't respond, I don't know why.

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OKC sux everywhere because they changed the messaging rules Dec '17 so you can't tell if your target ever read your message or even if (s)he is even 'around' any more. OKC sux where I live because new women almost never sign up. The same women as were there in Oct '17 are still there. The two sucky things may be cause and effect. I'm having much more success with match.com.

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I'm having much more success with match.com.

 

Not to derail the thread, but how did it go with the two women you were talking to?? I think you had dates set up with them??

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