EC Posted September 19, 2005 Posted September 19, 2005 So yeah I'm a little hurt by my old roomate. As some of you know..I was living with my roomate and things didn't work out or whatever so I moved out. We ended on ok terms. We see eachother now atleast twice a week and we are polite. We say Hi and Bye and t hats about it. Now we both messed up, I'll admit. Even if you look up my old posts though I wrote how she wa slike a sister to me and that I missed her and that it was a shame how things ended and that I hoped eventually we could be friends again. Well While we were friends she would go on and on about her old best friend. She would talk soooooooo much trash about how she left her at Dennys at three in the morning with no ride, how she through a cup of wine in her face, how she would cheat on her boyfriend. I mean the list goes on about what a horrible friend she was, and how thankful she was to find a friend like me. Well yeah we had a falling out but now I found myspace. and I saw her profile and I guess she has reunited with this girl and they have pics up together hugging, and smiling. ANd I can't help but think she couldnt see past the minor falling out that we had and forgive me but she can forgive that b8tch??? I mean it really hurts. I really thought I was over everything that happened and over her..but after seeing that...oohh it just irked me. Anyways I guess I am just venting because I am hurt. And its not like I want to be where we were because too much has happened, but I mean i always thought I treated her better, and was there for her more than any other friend and now shes all lovey dovey with the girl she hated for so long?? I dont understand?
d'Arthez Posted September 19, 2005 Posted September 19, 2005 Are you sure, she did tell the truth about her best friend to you? And not attempted to look a lot better, understanding et cetera to you, by appearing such a good girl, compared to her friend? The trash talking about a former best friend, when she is not around, is truly revealing of either the friendship or her (petty) nature. Considering her behavior towards you, I would think the latter is the issue. But then, why bother with a girl, who has no problem with bending the truth in such a way, as to make her look better than she is? Without doubt she will not hesitate to talk about you to her current best friend. Or whomever she is willing to divulge her description of events to. And you can be certain of one thing, that it is either not the truth (as may have happened, as mentioned above), or it is the truth. But if she would be telling the truth about you, it is also telling that she won't make an effort to restore the friendship - move on. It is hard, but forget about her, and move on.
Author EC Posted September 19, 2005 Author Posted September 19, 2005 Your absolutely right. I have to move on. I guess I just really miss the person I thought she was and who I would like her to still be. But the again I never really knew her did I? I could just imagine what she has been telling her new/old friend about me. But your right why do i care? Why would I want a friend like that right?? I just wish it didnt bother me so much!
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