Tommyu85 Posted February 24, 2019 Posted February 24, 2019 Hi everyone thanks for taking the time to read this. I have been dating a girl for around three months now. She came for a work trial where I work and we immediately hit it off. We exchanged numbers and instantly messaged alot every day which then progressed onto phone calls late at night. We have been on dates and everything which we both said we enjoyed and that we really like each other. The problem I am having is she can be very closed off with her feelings and it makes it difficult to know what she thinks. I give her compliments which she often ignores and tell her I look forward to seeing her and she says the she feels the same but she never gives me a compliment or tells me she looking forward to it, it is always me. Since she started her new job she has been messaging a guy pretty much all day from when she wakes up until she goes to sleep, she only met him three weeks ago, is this normal for a girl to do if there is no feelings there? She has told me she likes me and doesn't want to be with anyone else but I just have a guy feeling something isn't right. What do people think?
MeadowFlower Posted February 24, 2019 Posted February 24, 2019 (edited) Hi everyone thanks for taking the time to read this. I have been dating a girl for around three months now. She came for a work trial where I work and we immediately hit it off. We exchanged numbers and instantly messaged alot every day which then progressed onto phone calls late at night. We have been on dates and everything which we both said we enjoyed and that we really like each other. The problem I am having is she can be very closed off with her feelings and it makes it difficult to know what she thinks. I give her compliments which she often ignores and tell her I look forward to seeing her and she says the she feels the same but she never gives me a compliment or tells me she looking forward to it, it is always me. Since she started her new job she has been messaging a guy pretty much all day from when she wakes up until she goes to sleep, she only met him three weeks ago, is this normal for a girl to do if there is no feelings there? She has told me she likes me and doesn't want to be with anyone else but I just have a guy feeling something isn't right. What do people think? If you erase that last paragraph, she sounds a bit like I was with my ex Edited February 24, 2019 by MeadowFlower
d0nnivain Posted February 24, 2019 Posted February 24, 2019 She's repeating the pattern she started with you with him. You are more into her then she is to you. Be careful 1
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