incredibleme Posted February 23, 2019 Posted February 23, 2019 (edited) I was once at the airport traveling home from vacation when this guy approached me (apparently we had been on the same 1st flight), we talked and exchanged numbers and it turned out that we were heading to the same country, but different cities 3hrs drive apart. When I got home, he called me and asked if I got home safely. He continued to text and call me about twice a week for about 4 weeks. Then he had a conference in my city, so he told me he will come to see me. The conference started on Thursday and ended on Sunday (i had thought the conference was only on the weekend ). He came, booked a hotel and attended the conference and didn't communicate until Sunday afternoon when he was coming to see me. He had told me what he would like to eat, so I cooked that. He came with a present for me, we cooked 1 meal together, ate, chatted a lot and finally cuddled on the couch while we watched a movie. At about 1 am, he said he was sleepy, so I went and prepared a room for him to sleep, kissed goodnight and went to sleep in another room. He wanted me to sleep with him in that room and promising me that we only going to kiss and nothing else, I refused and told him I liked him, but I would like to know him more). The next day (it was a holiday), we had breakfast, watched a movie, kissed a lot and wanted more (sex), I refused again and at about 1 pm he wanted to call uber, but i offered to drop him at his hotel. I dropped him at the hotel, went up to his room and realized that he had been in the hotel since Thursday (i didn't know) and didn't communicate until Sunday. I got disappointed that he could stay in the same town as me and not communicate and only see me on the last day. I asked him and he said he was really busy. I understood and left as I had other things to do that day and he had to prepare to return to his city that afternoon. When he got to his city, he texted me and notified me that he got back safely. Now it's been 1 week since he last communicated with me..... we haven't talked or texted...should I assume he is not interested with me anymore or he changed his mind or he had a different motive?... I haven't texted or called either, should I text or call? should I have slept with him because e live on different cities? Edited February 24, 2019 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
preraph Posted February 24, 2019 Posted February 24, 2019 Yep, could be married. He will call if he thinks he can get sex next time. But meanwhile, you need to spend $25 and do a background check on him and find out if he's married or anything else you should know. 1
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted February 24, 2019 Posted February 24, 2019 He wanted sex, didn't get it, so he's backing off. Maybe married, maybe not. Maybe his wife was with him for the first few days, too.....
smackie9 Posted February 24, 2019 Posted February 24, 2019 It was fun when it happened....time to move on.
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