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Got EMAIL from ex? What do I do?! Help


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Well, I just recieved an EMAIL from my ex girlfriend. Here are the circumstances surrounding my situation, I have another thread on it completely but basically, she cheated on me, left me for another guy; wanted to be friends and I couldn't so I told her we should go our seperate ways.

 

Anyways, I sent her parents an EMAIL the other day thanking them for everything they have done for me; stating that I only wanted what was best for her and always strived to be my best for her and generally hope she is happy with her decision to leave me. Anyways, today I recieved an email from her saying thank you for sending the letter, some general stuff about picking up my mail, etc. She also went into details about how she missed me and cares about me and hopes we can be "friends" but also understands that if I dont want to be.

 

Now, I have been doing N.C for about 2 weeks since I have last seen her; generally avodigin answering the phone due to a lack of caller ID, etc. Should I respond to the email?? Her birthday is coming up on Thursday and I had told her the last time we spoke that I was going to call her on her birthday. I honestly dont know what I should do; I still want her back and everything in the world says that I shouldn't after what she has done to me.

 

Should I continue with the N.C?

Doing what at this point will improve my chances of EVER getting her back? I dont want to be just friends as I don't think I can handle it. But I keep thinking if I hold on as a "friend" I might be able to somehow compete with this new guy??

 

I am so insanely confused, please help L.S!!

 

Thanks guyz

 

Matt

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