Author ella5 Posted March 2, 2019 Author Posted March 2, 2019 Big misconception about women making the first move...I was never taken advantage of, or had any negative experience, now I'm not saying everyone will have the same experience, mine was very positive. Yes I was turned down maybe once or twice, but it was no big deal to me, there were plenty of other guys to date, I just had that attitude (I knew my worth). I liked taking risks. Women have more advantage than men do, so it's different. We don't go through as much rejection like guys do. In fact the guys I asked out just loved it and felt flattered. As for guys that would take advantage...does matter if you ask them out or they ask you out..their agenda was always there no matter what. So girl, if he doesn't reciprocate, that's fine. You will find plenty more suitors with your confidence. Not bad for a shy girl I must say. Good on you. Thank you, this post legit made me happy. And I agree, I've had guys that pursued me had an agenda that I didn't like so just because they pursue doesn't meant they are looking for some wonderful relationship. And yes, thank you, I am trying to be less shy 1
smackie9 Posted March 3, 2019 Posted March 3, 2019 You are young, you have plenty of time with work out a perfect balance of give and take when it comes to dating and attracting. Guys at that age are doing the same thing. The older you get, the easier it will get. The key thing is to take every experience and learn from it, but never let it discourage you from trying it again.
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