Is this a lie again?

[Truth or dare 3009]

Truthfulness is the most important thing in a relationship. If you have a situation where your boyfriend has been historically less than fully transparent but seems to have really changed, what do you think of this below?

 

He is supposed to transfer money from a non interest bearing account to a money market account - this money is all he has in terms of assets and it's a limited amount. This is important because he wants to move in and marry and I’m very responsible in terms of money and am set financially. I know he really loves me and while me having money is nice I don’t think that’s why he wants to be with me.

 

He tells me he will transfer all of it except some vacation money he insisted he wanted to pay for an upcoming trip of ours.

 

When I first asked him he said he transferred most of it but wanted to leave some in his checking account to cover a few things until he got more payroll deposits. That was a month ago, so is this a lie? He never bothered to transfer a good share of it into the savings and the money is just sitting in his checking account. This may seem trivial but I will NOT MOVE forward with him if I hear 1 more lie!!

 

What do you think?

Edited February 22, 2019 by Truth or dare 3009

[smackie9]

If he is a habitual liar, he's not going to stop doing it. So why are you giving him all these chances. Obviously you have trust issues....Should have bailed out a long time ago.