swenann991 Posted February 21, 2019 Posted February 21, 2019 (edited) In the past 4-5 years, I tried (and I am still using) many hookup apps and casual sex sites to arrange hook-ups. Tried almost everything but not I am on 4 hookup sites and 2 apps (Tinder and Pure). For me a bit better are sites than apps, I am having an impression that is a bit lower competition on sites. On the other side, I have the impression that 9/10 and 10/10 guys, bang all girls on apps. I am interested to hear what you say, what working better for you when it comes to finding some casual sex partners: sites or apps? Edited February 22, 2019 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
ShyLove Posted February 22, 2019 Posted February 22, 2019 Just go outside and walk down the street lol I never was into just casual but most people I know who are have lots of luck with tinder. The only thing is the casual sex only lasts for about two months before each person begins to look for something else. But if you want a long term casual sex partner maybe a site would be better. Idk bc it seems like people Online keep shopping for others whether or not they are happy with their current situations. Good luck )
Author swenann991 Posted February 23, 2019 Author Posted February 23, 2019 bars & nightclubs Well, that is nice, since that is "old school" way, but I am interested to hear about those 21st century things 1
d0nnivain Posted February 23, 2019 Posted February 23, 2019 Well, that is nice, since that is "old school" way, but I am interested to hear about those 21st century things It is old school 'cause it works. New isn't necessarily improved. I was so not impressed with anybody I met on line. It made me run back to the tried & true methods. 1
Hopeful30 Posted February 27, 2019 Posted February 27, 2019 None of the above. What works best for me is when a man approaches a woman *casually* and strikes up a conversation. After all, he too needs to explore whether he is interested in this woman beyond her appearance. Just my two cents. 1
Highroller107 Posted February 27, 2019 Posted February 27, 2019 I tried tinder for hookups, but the guys are just shady and I don’t like the idea of a guy not doing “any work” to try to impress me to get into my pants. It shouldn’t be that easy for him to get puuessy. My last hookup was at a bar last year. From now on if I’m in need of a hookup I’m going to hit the bars clubs. I like when guys approach me and say witty things to me, at least he will try to work on his game.
kendahke Posted February 27, 2019 Posted February 27, 2019 Well, that is nice, since that is "old school" way, but I am interested to hear about those 21st century things They're listing what works. As you can see, your 21st century methods aren't getting the job done for you. Time to retool and approach it differently.
Author swenann991 Posted March 3, 2019 Author Posted March 3, 2019 They're listing what works. As you can see, your 21st century methods aren't getting the job done for you. Time to retool and approach it differently. Well, this makes sense...
Author swenann991 Posted March 5, 2019 Author Posted March 5, 2019 Festivals, concerts, bars and nightclubs. I understand bars and night clubs, but please explain what you mean when you said festivals and concerts?
Iris The Butterfly Posted March 29, 2019 Posted March 29, 2019 Even though I met my current bf of 5.5 months on a dating app (Bumble), I’m still not a fan of it. I’m hoping I’ll never have to go back!! I’ve had too many negative experiences and wastes of time. I also have been ghosted too many times from the dating apps. I met a couple nice guys but they were the exception. I met some nice guys on Match and Bumble. I met a lot of guys looking to hook up or collect numbers and IG followers too. I think best place to meet someone is the old fashioned way- be it through mutual friends, in person, etc. I met my last serious bf while I was on vacation. It’s those moments of fate that I think are more substantial and meaningful. Or- if you’re just looking to multi date and hook up and want variety- all the dating apps will provide that.
Author swenann991 Posted May 8, 2019 Author Posted May 8, 2019 Even though I met my current bf of 5.5 months on a dating app (Bumble), I’m still not a fan of it. I’m hoping I’ll never have to go back!! I’ve had too many negative experiences and wastes of time. I also have been ghosted too many times from the dating apps. I met a couple nice guys but they were the exception. I met some nice guys on Match and Bumble. I met a lot of guys looking to hook up or collect numbers and IG followers too. I think best place to meet someone is the old fashioned way- be it through mutual friends, in person, etc. I met my last serious bf while I was on vacation. It’s those moments of fate that I think are more substantial and meaningful. Or- if you’re just looking to multi date and hook up and want variety- all the dating apps will provide that. littlebridge, thanks for sharing honest opinion and experience
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