Tagalz Posted February 18, 2019 Posted February 18, 2019 Hey! So she randomly showed up at my workplace. I didn't knew that before I opened my snap and it was a picture of me working. Which means she was actually watching me work and she said that so. To be honest I didn't expected it but I should have because she is a spontaneous girl. I asked her what she is doing here in the mall and she told me that she was nearby. I told her cool but I can't talk so much because I have to work and there is a lot of customers. She then told me that she wait 4 hours... and I said no it's better to go home. After some hours had gone she came to me again. (She was tired of looking around) and she was just standing there watching people buy and go so I said that she could help me. She agreed but was still standing still after cleaning and stuff. So I told her that she could go to the backroom and relax. To be honest I can't let her in because she isn't really working there and I told her that I could get in trouble for that. But I said **** it and if the security comes I just say that she is with me. But why didn't she kiss me when I follow her home? Last time she hugged me tight, but she didn't do it this time. This time it was more longer lasting. I tried to go for it but it didn't seems like she wanted it. Am I in the friend zone? Or am I just overthinking?
preraph Posted February 19, 2019 Posted February 19, 2019 Don't know why she didn't kiss you, but she's going to get you in trouble at work if you don't hold the line with her there. 1
frankspeci Posted February 19, 2019 Posted February 19, 2019 Do you want to kiss her? I say tell her you would like to kiss her at this point, see if it's what she wants as well.
smackie9 Posted February 19, 2019 Posted February 19, 2019 Sorry big turn off when asked permission to kiss. Girls like a confident guy to just make a move. Ask her out, take her to a movie, make your move there.
Author Tagalz Posted February 20, 2019 Author Posted February 20, 2019 Hey! I finally kissed her! But at the same time I failed.... and she doesn’t think I’m good enough. I came to her workplace to keep her in company. There is not alot of customers where she works so we could have a conversations without anyone interrupting. It was great and she is an honest girl who says thing as it is even if it’s rude. She told me that I’m taking everything she says too seriously which I don’t but she takes my joke seriously too??? So we both are afraid that it would be too serious?? She also said that I don’t have any friends because I’m going to visit her workplace again tomorrow??? That’s so rude. And the worst part is that I saw a glimpse of a tinder notification which means she uses tinder and I asked her if she’s using it alot. She told me yes and that she already got 8 matches!? To be honest we have only been on 1 date and lately it’s just hanging out at each other’s workplace so it’s safe to say we are not dating. But I need her to stop using tinder if we are dating and my plan is to ask her out again. She then asked if she could check my phone and see if I was active. I told her no I’m not but you are. Well she was trying to avoid it and talked about other things like how many steps I’ve taken in a day. I feel I would get rejected if I ask her out. I just don’t know what went wrong...
GTR King Posted February 20, 2019 Posted February 20, 2019 If she is being fishy about using tinder etc and turning up at your work unannounced that's a big turn off.. If you've been dating few months/few years every now & then should be fine... where did you meet this girl? How long you been talking? Id's say move on
Larry56 Posted February 20, 2019 Posted February 20, 2019 Just wants attention, but doesn't want to give you anything in return. This is how females work.
Author Tagalz Posted February 21, 2019 Author Posted February 21, 2019 If she is being fishy about using tinder etc and turning up at your work unannounced that's a big turn off.. If you've been dating few months/few years every now & then should be fine... where did you meet this girl? How long you been talking? Id's say move on Met her on facebook hahha. Met her for the first time last saturday. So we have been meeting each other 4 times already. At a coffe shop first, then she came spontanously to my workplace and then asked me to do the same. I showed up yesterday and today at her workplace. Nothing much to do so we just talked. We haven’t been dating that long.
Author Tagalz Posted February 21, 2019 Author Posted February 21, 2019 Just wants attention, but doesn't want to give you anything in return. This is how females work. Well she did give tho. Asked if I could show up at her workplace (:
Author Tagalz Posted February 21, 2019 Author Posted February 21, 2019 Hey! I can see that she isn’t the way she were when we first met and she was being honest about it. I will tell you. She isn’t joking as much and wants to have a conversation instead. I remember I followed her home and she said this: «I feel like you take everything that I say too seriously» and I told her no I don’t and I’m just laughing because I don’t have anything else to say back. This thread comes 2 days late because I didn’t think much about it but I really want to talk to her. I just don’t know If I should let this go or ask her «What’s wrong? Why do you think I take things seriously?»
MidwestUSA Posted February 21, 2019 Posted February 21, 2019 Is this the girl you’ve been on one date with? And you’re each stalking the other’s workplaces? She wants to ‘have a conversation’, and you want to talk to her. So, just do it. No need to ask her what’s wrong or why she said what she did. Do you have difficulty holding up your end of a conversation?
Author Tagalz Posted February 21, 2019 Author Posted February 21, 2019 Do you have difficulty holding up your end of a conversation? Yes because sometimes we have different opinion on things and I don’t want to sit there for hours talking about it so I just end it with saying «yeah» It doesn’t seem to affect her tho On a good side I can see how her see things etc.
Author Tagalz Posted February 21, 2019 Author Posted February 21, 2019 (edited) Is this the girl you’ve been on one date with? And you’re each stalking the other’s workplaces? Yes this is the girl I’ve been on a date with and she came to my workplace. I get your point she can say whatever she wants to. Yes I have trouble holding the end of a conversation. Any advice? Edited February 22, 2019 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
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