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Discussing intimacy with new love?


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My girlfriend and I have established love, have gotten to know each other very well, and I want to know what the best way is to ask her about her views on intimacy (not only sex), with me... She’s gone through a lot after losing her SO two years ago from cancer... I know it may be a sensitive subject, considering, but it’s part of what we are, and will help us grow. Thanks!

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I care for you and adore you very much, and I'd like to know what sorts of intimacy you would be game for?

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Tell her you feel really close to her and see how she responds. Ask how she sees things going between you, what she's looking for. I know men on this forum usually tell other men NOT to do something like that, but in this case I think it would be appropriate.

 

She probably has similar questions about where you stand with things.

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My girlfriend and I have established love, have gotten to know each other very well, and I want to know what the best way is to ask her about her views on intimacy (not only sex), with me... She’s gone through a lot after losing her SO two years ago from cancer... I know it may be a sensitive subject, considering, but it’s part of what we are, and will help us grow. Thanks!

 

If you have established love and gotten to know each other really well, why don’t you consider relationship as intimate?

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What kind of "intimacy" are you talking about?

Is this a hands off kind of "love" at present?

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