i need your help, i don't now what i have to do?

[jonney03]

i recently separated after 7yrs of r/n.i had no illusion i will be in love with anther girl till i met this girl.here what happen,i met this girl in my work place.she is a new employee, when i saw her first i had no intention except admiring her looks.most of ladysman and smarties start cheesing her.i was thinking blk men like me could not be interested for hot white professional girl.but the opposite happen she show me some int erst and give some signal.other people who see that was not happy.first i couldn't believe it. i was thinking it was my imagination but it was consistent.than i decide to talk to her, i am right she interesting to hang out with me.now i start like her, a few weeks passed still every thing OK.than i ask her to meet outside after work,no problem.i gave her my number,she promise me she gonna call me back.i start loving her 3-4 days passed she didn't call me after work.i ask her why she didn't call me and she told me she never call people before.i ask her if i call her she mind.she give me her number without hesitation.i told her i will call her someday if she hes time to hangout,she replay that would be nice. i call her that evening, she don't answer i left message,she don't call back.next day when we meet she apologies, she was in the gem that is why she couldn't answer the phone.i trust her, i don't have any choice, i ask her plan on Friday evening, she has none.i ask her it OK if i call and meet in the evening, she said no problem.so i call her she don't answer, i left a message she didn't call me back.i call her Saturday like 3times,she don't answer.finally she call me Saturday @5pm telling me she don't have time to talk to me right away and she said i will call you Sunday and we will talk.here i am waiting her call.i am in love now,i can't eat,sleep or read.usually i don't drink,now i drink a lot to forget about her but i can't.she stick in my mind.tell me people, if she don't have int erst why all this.do you give your number if you don't like some one. i don't know.i don't get it.help me to understand.thanks

[daverave2005]

sorry to say this but she sounds like she's not interested and tagging you along. try not to be to presessive, phone her the once if she doesn't answer then leave it dude, let her do the chasing. try asking her out for a date without using the phone eg.. friday evening at 7pm. if shes there cool, but don't be surprised if she isn't. i always find work relationships don't work. you always find he/she kissing/flurting someone else in the office. find someone better dude. keep ur chin up

[jonney03]

deprave-thanks men ya she play game, i fine now.i am not experting call from her.it is genres.i am looking what ever i love from my heart.forget about her,thanks anyway.