Mhmmm Posted February 10, 2019 Posted February 10, 2019 Hi! This is my first thread here so I don't really know how things work around here. So I'm still a teenager and in one shop that i go there's this one older cashier like ~10 years older than me. I think that she's into me, when I'm walking around the shop she always looks at me, when I'm at the cash register she starts acting weird, shy. She tries to make eye contact, when we do she quickly looks away. The thing is, I haven't talked to her, don't know how, but I kinda like her. It's a weird situation, don't know what to do. It looks like she's into me and I kinda liker her, but she's older than me. What should I do? P.S. English isn't my first language, sorry for grammar mistakes.
Cersei Posted February 10, 2019 Posted February 10, 2019 Your English is great. I think the first thing you should do is say "hi, I am ****insert your name here***" and try to have a conversation with her. See how that goes.
littleblackheart Posted February 10, 2019 Posted February 10, 2019 So I'm still a teenager Hi OP. How old are you, exactly? Because unless you're 18, I'm not sure pursuing this is would be a very wise move...
Cersei Posted February 10, 2019 Posted February 10, 2019 Hi OP. How old are you, exactly? Because unless you're 18, I'm not sure pursuing this is would be a very wise move... Oh yes, good point! She could be in some hot water if this were to go anywhere.
alphamale Posted February 10, 2019 Posted February 10, 2019 dude, she is looking at you to check and make sure you don't shoplift 2
Author Mhmmm Posted February 10, 2019 Author Posted February 10, 2019 Hi OP. How old are you, exactly? Because unless you're 18, I'm not sure pursuing this is would be a very wise move... I'm 18, no worries
ericw899 Posted February 10, 2019 Posted February 10, 2019 Hi! This is my first thread here so I don't really know how things work around here. So I'm still a teenager and in one shop that i go there's this one older cashier like ~10 years older than me. I think that she's into me, when I'm walking around the shop she always looks at me, when I'm at the cash register she starts acting weird, shy. She tries to make eye contact, when we do she quickly looks away. The thing is, I haven't talked to her, don't know how, but I kinda like her. It's a weird situation, don't know what to do. It looks like she's into me and I kinda liker her, but she's older than me. What should I do? P.S. English isn't my first language, sorry for grammar mistakes. Because she is a cashier, it makes it easier to talk to her. It is her job to interact with the public, so start by asking basic work questions like "how much does this cost" or "do you sell this" After that try and work in basic chit-chat and some playful banter and see how she reacts to it and go from there.
Author Mhmmm Posted February 11, 2019 Author Posted February 11, 2019 Because she is a cashier, it makes it easier to talk to her. It is her job to interact with the public, so start by asking basic work questions like "how much does this cost" or "do you sell this" After that try and work in basic chit-chat and some playful banter and see how she reacts to it and go from there. I could try, it really seems like she's into me. She was again in the cash register, it's ovious that she sees has something for me, but i couldn't talk to her, there was too many people. Also the age gap, is it worth it trying?
smackie9 Posted February 12, 2019 Posted February 12, 2019 If I was a 20 something woman I definitely would not date an 18 year old.
Lotsgoingon Posted February 12, 2019 Posted February 12, 2019 Just practicing saying "hi." And then over time, you can say "hi" and "how are you doing today?" Don't go much past that unless she seems interested.
Amalyn Posted February 12, 2019 Posted February 12, 2019 Make small talk with her. Say hello. Ask her how her day is. Say something nice like "I hope you don't have to work too late today" etc.
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