SamuraiJack Posted September 18, 2005 Posted September 18, 2005 I have a problem with girls. I am too shy. TOO SHY. All my life I had liked many girls, but didn't have the nerve to talk to them. 2 years ago when I was on my first year in college, I talked to a girl I liked for sometimes. After some times I felt like an idiot and stopped talking or even say hello! Today, I had a similar thing. A girl asked me a question about lectures. I realized that she was 1 year younger than me and that she was 3 hours early for the lectures. I started asking her about her last year exams and so. I gave her some tips for this year, and then I told here that I have to leave. That's it without even asking for her name. Half an hour later I was walking with a male friend and saw her with a female friend. I passed by without a single word. Then I sat two benches next to her (each with his own friends) in an open space in the college. So what shall I do?
Forever Searching Posted September 20, 2005 Posted September 20, 2005 Just go back up to her the next time you see her and talk to her!!! I know easier said then done!! I used to be really shy when I was younger so I know the feeling all I can say is go for it. Maybe explain to her that you are really shy??
Jadey Posted September 21, 2005 Posted September 21, 2005 Awww shyness is cute! I can be quite shy around guys im attracted to too, and very very rarely would make the first move. So i do understand how you feel. Next time you see this girl go up to her and say "hello, how are you? last time we spoke i never catched your name" And go on from there. Just speak to her casually and as you go along, as you speak to her more, you will get alot more relaxed and it will come pretty easy, i can gaurantee. Im afraid theres not much more you can do. Tell her youre shy if you think it might help. As a girl, i can tell you, if a guy spoke to me and told me he was nervous about speaking to me i would find it really really cute. And if she has any sense so will she!! The only other thing i could suggest is getting a friend to talk to her. But honestly that turns me off abit if a guy cant come up to mr themselves, even if they are really shy. Just go for it. Really youve got nothing to loose. Let me know how it goes!
Fatb Posted September 23, 2005 Posted September 23, 2005 i know the feeling mate, i am also very shy but a few days ago i plucked up the courage to talk to a girl who i new fancied me and i just talked. It was at a party and despite my weak 1st attemp(eg her walking off after 5 minutes) i battled through it and tried again and was talking to her for an hour then walked her home but then stupidely didnt kiss her which her mates are now calling me gay lol but you really have just got to pluck up the courage, it doesnt matter if it doesnt go perfectly she should acknowledge your attempt
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