Linda_411 Posted September 18, 2005 Posted September 18, 2005 At times it seems like my bf doesn't want to see me, is this telling me something(like he doesn't want to talk on the phone, like he is in a hurry to get off)? Or like my bf will never want to make out and if I try to go anyting sexual he always says geeze your horny. It upsets, because then I don't think he loves me, and it hurts because I don't see him that often because I'm busy with school and all. Any reasons why you think he acts this way?
Guest Posted September 18, 2005 Posted September 18, 2005 My advice would be is to just ask him, what he does, and allowhim to know that this bothers you.
LazyLibra Posted September 18, 2005 Posted September 18, 2005 Well i can tell you why i would be acting that way. It may give you insight or it may be totally irrelevant. You decide. I acted like that with my other girlfriend because I was interested in another woman. The situation was similar to yours. My girlfriend at the time was so busy in school and work that i would see her once a week in a good month and once every two weeks on a bad month. I knew it wasn't her fault but For some reason i felt bitter towards her, I thought she could be doing something to make more time to see me! It was a tad different because she also had to visit her family and friends so the little time she had was divided. So i met a girl who i had no interest in cheating with. She had alot of time for me and she still went to school and worked. So this did not help the situation. I felt guilty so i made the relationship drag on for 3 months hoping it would improve. At the same time i would turn down her advances and just didn't enjoy talking to her on the phone anymore. I would just be quite and when she said what she had to i'd make an excuse to get off the phone. So in a nutshell. It was another woman who made my relationship disassemble. I'm not saying your boyfriend has another woman i'm just trying to tell you that it's possible.
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