wifigeek Posted September 18, 2005 Posted September 18, 2005 ok so where do i start.. the other night i got two friends together (just so the 3 of us could hangout), and at the end of the night they both txted me asking for each others number! (one is male, the other is female), i obviously have feelings for the female one too. anyway, i thought about it, and decided the best way to fix it was to be honest with both and tell them i was not happy because i had been in this situation before and i felt like i would be left out. (my ex best friend went out with my girlfriend at the time behind my back!). anyway.. all 3 of us went to a theme park the other night, and she kept going on rides with him and leaving me out to hold our bags, and whenever it was his turn to hold the bags she didnt want to go on anything with me and kept putting it off. she told me at college that she was not intrested in him and not to worry about anything bad happening to our friendship. but after that night i just felt really bad and wanted to kill myself (i have issues due to the way the ex treated me for the last 3-4years of my life). so i txted her later on that night telling her how i felt.. and yestarday i get a txt telling me to "stop trying to control her and tell her who and who not to date" (i never did this.. i only said that i wasnt happy and didnt want to be left out, i never once said that i didnt want her to go out with him). so i explained that to her.. and now shes not talking to me. what do i do?. i see both of them at college everyday, im thinking i should just tell them both where to go and run away before i get hurt even more, because its plainly obvious they both like each other as much as they keep denying it. any help with this one would be appreciated.. if it was the other way around i certainly wouldnt do that to her =(.
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