Starnette83 Posted September 18, 2005 Posted September 18, 2005 I dont know why but today im feeling very depressed over my bf or ex, what-ever, i dont even know what we are anymore, since hes confusing me, he still has me in his myspace site and in his profile our initials are still there, and ive kept mine too but yet the fact that he hasnt contacted me even though hes seen me online really bothers me. I am so depressssed, i have kept wanting to cry, i love him so much and yet he enjoys being immature and doing this to us, doesnt he see how he is breakin us apart, i just wish i could be strong and not let him keep doing this to me, if he calls and tries to work it out , i wish i could just say "NO" and hand up...but i know i cant do that, because i miss him, i want to be in his arms and feel happy again... gosh this sucks so much!!!!!!!!!!!!
upsetnhurt Posted September 18, 2005 Posted September 18, 2005 Starnette, Sit back and think about what you really love about this guy? From the outside I question how you can love a guy who ignores you and makes you feel sad, confused and hurt most times. Are you sure you are not "in love" with the dream of being with the one? Think hard and if you can admit that is the case there is only one option.....pull away from this guy and don't show him any attention (that means continued no contact). Not for four days yet for four months. See where you are at that point and if he has yet to come back for you then you know it was not meant to be.
smile95 Posted September 18, 2005 Posted September 18, 2005 upsetnhurt.....that post was not for me, but wanted to let you know that it helped me today....thx
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