hippychick3 Posted February 5, 2019 Posted February 5, 2019 Generally, good looking guys always go for younger or hotter, or women with no kids even if they have one. Oh wait, that’s all guys. So ridiculously untrue As a 40 something divorced woman with 3 kids, I dated many, many good looking men including current bf of 5 1/2 years who happens to be hot AF. 1
stillafool Posted February 5, 2019 Posted February 5, 2019 POF is largely a hook-up site, so the fact there was no sex by the third date, this is likely the reason. Why do women go on hook up sites to find a boyfriend? 2
TheFinalWord Posted February 6, 2019 Posted February 6, 2019 Why do women go on hook up sites to find a boyfriend? I don't know. It's the same with people that use match/eharmony to basically hook up.
Highndry Posted February 6, 2019 Posted February 6, 2019 He feels the same way about you as you feel about those guys you're not interested in. The trick is finding somebody with equal attraction. 1
James5791BBB Posted February 6, 2019 Posted February 6, 2019 Could be but why not just tell me? Also his dating profile he makes it clear he wants a relationship and don’t contact him if you are taken or looking for a side piece. I feel a little mislead and maybe he just wasn’t interested in me like I thought. He couldn’t keep his lips or hands off me. Always massaging me. I just feel a little weird. It was only 4 dates and yes I’m moving on but wondering why suddenly he lost interest. Tbh I’m going through the same custody crap and if I really like a girl I can handle both a new girl in ur life is a refreshing change , are he could be watching them silly YouTube vids on dating ( is he trying to get u to chase him ) my view is if he can’t make the effort to call are text and worse case call time then he ain’t worth the hassle pet hate is gohsting he should be a man n treat u with respect either way , guys like him get decent guys a bad name
Interstellar Posted February 7, 2019 Posted February 7, 2019 (edited) Cool. Thanks for letting us know older women are not attractive to you. Luckily not all men think like that. Also, are you insinuating OP is old and that’s why (in your mind) the man went for a younger woman? That’s a lot of (unfounded) assumption right there. I feel like you’re talking about yourself and what you’d do. Kind of mysoginistic and gerontophobic ideas too. Thanks for putting words in my mouth. I’m actually also attracted to women my age and slightly older. When you meet somebody the initial attraction starts with the physical, you’re not thinking about their age. She could be a 40 year old who looks 20. But it all starts with the physical or the face. It all starts with the physical attraction test, if you pass it then the man or woman gets their foot in the door. But it doesn’t mean he will get a second, third, or fourth date, etc.... I’m stating as a fact that good looking guys on those sites would go for the most attractive woman usually they’re younger but who knows since I don’t have the statistics on it since they probably get a lot of messages. If it’s a woman then they’ll go for the most attractive one they like as well. Edited February 7, 2019 by Interstellar
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