setanta Posted February 4, 2019 Posted February 4, 2019 Hi All Quick question, I have been away from home for last month volunteering in a refugee camp in Greece, when I got home yesterday I had mail and included in it was a Christmas card from my ex , now it was a general Christmas card so I guess everyone got one but included in it was a message about her 2018 and how she was still single but hoping to rectify this in 2019 and a winky face. Plus was a personal message asking how I was on a red heart shaped bit of paper. Now I haven't heard from heron over a year and been 2 years since breakup, she ended it. We remained somewhat friendly Now I get it she's being friendly and keeping in touch etc etc but why would I want to know that she's going to meet someone in 2019 and will rectify it soon and why send me a heart shaped message asking how I am. Why do that, play games
loversquarrel Posted February 4, 2019 Posted February 4, 2019 I would just ignore it and move on. It's obvious she's trying to get a response out of you.
Author setanta Posted February 4, 2019 Author Posted February 4, 2019 I would just ignore it and move on. It's obvious she's trying to get a response out of you. You think, but what type of response?? Why do that
traditional Posted February 6, 2019 Posted February 6, 2019 It may mean the madam is sending out feelers, are you up for it....., Are you a candidate. That's what women do, that question is supposed to make you feel-ok she is available, I must rush-can't allow someone else to have her. If you are up for it, then contact her and be straight forward and to the point, if you not then remain friends or cut contact totally.
BC1980 Posted February 6, 2019 Posted February 6, 2019 That's very weird. If she wants to get back together with you, that's an odd way to do it. I'd ignore it.
Occitanie Posted February 6, 2019 Posted February 6, 2019 First of all, I wouldn’t read too much into it. It could be a “feeler”, but I wouldn’t get in touch with them. If she really is trying to get in touch with you, I would wait to see if gets in touch directly, i.e by text message, Facebook messenger, email or by phone. If you do hear from her directly, send her this: “Hey, it’s great to hear from you. I’d like to see you, when are you free?” And invite her over to yours to make dinner together. Remember, a girl will rarely ask you out. She’ll orbit hoping you’ll get things going.
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