Julian99 Posted February 4, 2019 Posted February 4, 2019 I’m currently doing a school project with a very pretty girl. A small project, she suggested exchanging numbers even though we really didn’t have to, but whatever. So were texting and we talk about the assignment maybe a few messages, and then she changes the subject, asks me a question and says oh her friend wanted her to ask that. Then we’re talking about where I work (that’s whar she mentioned), she’s waiting like 20-30 minutes to respond and then sends me another message extending conversation. I’m very attracted to this but I think she’s out of my league. Plus she told me her friend wanted her to ask her? She didn’t tell me the friend and changed the subject. What is most likely going on with her?
Author Julian99 Posted February 4, 2019 Author Posted February 4, 2019 What was the question she asked you? She asked me where I worked even though she already knew where I worked.
Marc878 Posted February 4, 2019 Posted February 4, 2019 Don't read too much into it. Time will tell. She's not out of your league. You never know for sure. Don't do the needy clingy and text her to death. Be cool and calm
gaius Posted February 4, 2019 Posted February 4, 2019 If she's attractive and you want her then test the waters with a little fun flirting or suggestion. Try doing something more on the subtle side so if it doesn't work out you can still finish your project together without it being awkward. It would probably be best to match her response time though. Don't send her a text back instantly if she's waiting 30 minutes to reply to you.
Author Julian99 Posted February 4, 2019 Author Posted February 4, 2019 If she's attractive and you want her then test the waters with a little fun flirting or suggestion. Try doing something more on the subtle side so if it doesn't work out you can still finish your project together without it being awkward. It would probably be best to match her response time though. Don't send her a text back instantly if she's waiting 30 minutes to reply to you. We already finished it we didn’t really even need to exchange numbers we sent 2 texts in total to each other about it
Interstellar Posted February 4, 2019 Posted February 4, 2019 (edited) No woman is out of your league. Ever. Don’t ever put yourself down and think someone else is better than you. Edited February 4, 2019 by Interstellar 2
d0nnivain Posted February 4, 2019 Posted February 4, 2019 When you see her in class, ask her on a date. Do not text the ask.
smackie9 Posted February 4, 2019 Posted February 4, 2019 (edited) It's very possible her friend or BF or orbiter, was the one texting you and did it secretly. Remember you really don't know who's on the other end. Edited February 4, 2019 by smackie9
Author Julian99 Posted February 4, 2019 Author Posted February 4, 2019 It's very possible her friend or BF or orbiter, was the one texting you and did it secretly. Remember you really don't know who's on the other end. It was her texting me seemed pretty obvious to me.
d0nnivain Posted February 4, 2019 Posted February 4, 2019 It was her texting me seemed pretty obvious to me. You got messages from her #. You don't know who was actually typing. 1
fred123 Posted February 5, 2019 Posted February 5, 2019 No woman is out of your league. Ever. Don’t ever put yourself down and think someone else is better than you. there is always a league and women even know this!
smackie9 Posted February 5, 2019 Posted February 5, 2019 OK then maybe she's monkey branching, and her BF walked into the room, so she waited for him to leave before continuing. Or her long distance BF was chatting with her.
kendahke Posted February 5, 2019 Posted February 5, 2019 she's just a chick in class you have to do a project with. She's not your girlfriend. Stop reading more into this than what exists. Her friend probably likes you more than she does and that's why she said that. Also, if she's cute, then she probably already has a boyfriend and she talks to him a lot. You aren't that guy, so...
PRW Posted February 5, 2019 Posted February 5, 2019 No woman is out of your league. Ever. They are if you "think" they are. I have never seen a guy survive that situation when they are in it unprepared. They always have to correct their thinking first, and be good at it,...first,...before they approach a women.
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