bellaD Posted September 18, 2005 Posted September 18, 2005 tell me what i should do. And be honest please. My bofriend hears this absolute CRAZYmade up story about me in my past. its not the least bit true. He hears this story that i went all the way with a girl! now i have nothing against lesbians but i would never do somethign like that. i dont know where he woud hear such a crazy thing or who would make up somethign like that. But i'm even more mad about the fact that he believes it!! he knows me better than that. a part of me wants 2 end it b/c he believes but i love him with all my heart!! but at the same time i cant be w/ someone who is always goin to have the slightest doubt about me.. what should i do and how should approach this and him????
StellerBella Posted September 18, 2005 Posted September 18, 2005 Okay firstly I would find out what your boyf thinks of this info regardless if it is true or not. If he doesn't care and is not really that phased then just re-inforce that its not true regardless of what he thinks and move on. If he is bothered by it, then you need to address that. Try and find out where he heard this from, that way you know what you are dealing with. Try and reassure him that its not true and you wouldn't lie to him about this. Tell him that you need him to believe you because your not sure you can be with someone who doubts you, but make sure you address all of this in a calm way. Good luck
Author bellaD Posted September 18, 2005 Author Posted September 18, 2005 i didapproach it in a calm way- no matter ehich way i approached it he thinks im being "defensive" im getting annoyed now, you know.
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