msk29 Posted January 31, 2019 Posted January 31, 2019 Hello This Is For Ladies Only, I'm 28 and i struggle with having relationships this is my 9th relationship with a guy, & i known him for only 3 months, race or ethnicity doesn't matter to me but however it does to her..:((He's Latino And I'm African American) the fights we have almost every night the can be from small to loud arguments , and sometimes even Physical Fights... i hate my mom so much i wish she did not exist in my life.. she is prejudice and she said something racist about Hispanics before, .. i can't repeat it . my boyfriend is 26 he's attractive tattoos, he's shy and quiet, doesn't speak that much of English, i am learning Spanish(I learned for 5 months ) and i became almost fluent and i am practicing Spanglish . He has cared for me since October 4th of last year and we been trying to meet up somewhere else and at restaurants but we can't because he is working he is a medical student and ever since i talked to him on Whatsapp and texted him almost daily., until a girl who i once knew at a Starbucks coffee shop a few blocks down from a library close to where i stay at all the time had a weird Interest in him her name is Tati, she's younger than me and i have had bad times with her in the past. I told her to leave the both of us alone but she ignored me and continued do other things... like finding out where i ate daily , who he really is, and what is even worse i saw that she liked everything i posted that was appropriate on my FB Page she is depressed herself i tried blocking her from Social Media Before and i before i met jon back in 2017 she was on the same dating site as i was And i deleted my profile immediately because of her ... i think she is not as pretty or intelligent as i am , and my mom told me ''Your Just Jealous Of Her'' or '' you are inferior to other girls'' and i said no i am not mom, i am very angry still she won't approve him , so ladies my 4 questions are how to stop her from trying to do more than just have a interest in him? (which i think she could be doing) and 2nd question how do i get my mom to stop being an idiot and tell her he's a sweet guy who is not a criminal without her raising my blood pressure so high? and is it possible she may have a crush on me i saw in a profile of hers her profile said that she was proud of being in the ''LGBT'' Community. the last Question is what does she want from me , there is something weird going on and i don't like it !
smackie9 Posted January 31, 2019 Posted January 31, 2019 You mom is who she is, so you will have to ignore it and don't let it get to you. As for the girl, set your settings to private and block her on all social media. Second you can't control what people do unless they are breaking the law. If she is interacting with your BF, then it is up to your BF to handle that.
Gretchen12 Posted January 31, 2019 Posted January 31, 2019 You have to just not let your Mom in on your dating life. You continue seeing this guy but don't rub her nose in it and don't try to change her opinion. Just be hush about it and if your mother chooses to make this an issue then you'll need to distance yourself further. As for the Tati character, she can't do anything to steal your bf if your relationship is good. But you and your bf fight a lot. If he leaves you it'll be because of the fights, not because of that girl. Fix the relationship so you stop fighting. 1
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