Hollywood-Tourist Posted January 31, 2019 Posted January 31, 2019 (edited) I'm chatting to a woman currently that I met online and we were discussing looks and I said she was attractive but she said that she didn't think that of herself. I said to her that I didn't think that I was good-looking either and she responded by saying 'who said you weren't good-looking?' Does that mean that she could think that I am good-looking by her saying that? Thanks Edited January 31, 2019 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Fix spacing
Kelliousme Posted January 31, 2019 Posted January 31, 2019 Yes, you can interpret it as she thinks you're good looking. 1
Author Hollywood-Tourist Posted January 31, 2019 Author Posted January 31, 2019 That's what I thought. Thank you for replying.
Art Anderson Posted January 31, 2019 Posted January 31, 2019 I'd say you're good. As long as her voice didn't sound like she felt pity A few months back I was having coffee with a relative and a woman I was meeting with regularly. She started a new conversation with my cousin by referring to me as "Mr. GQ here ..." I'd never been called that before and I wasn't even dressed up that time. But she never tells me directly that she thinks I'm handsome. It's always buried in some other comment. e.g. "Oh I'm sure you'd have no problem ..." Women aren't usually as blunt as men with these things which is nice in its own way.
FMW Posted February 1, 2019 Posted February 1, 2019 Yes, she probably thinks you are good looking, but the important thing is that she is chatting with you. We women sometimes aren't as generous with our compliments to men about their looks as men are to women. I think we generally compliment men on things they do and on their accomplishments.
GraceAndJoy Posted February 1, 2019 Posted February 1, 2019 She thinks somebody ELSE has deflated your self-esteem (which has probably happened to her, and that's why she doesn't think of herself as good-looking). She wants you to know that person is not accurate...you are good looking to her! It's all good!! 1
TheFinalWord Posted February 1, 2019 Posted February 1, 2019 Sounds like you're fishing for compliments. Don't seek validation from women, and it sounds like she called you on it.
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