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Why do men take it out on the other man, when confronted with infidelity

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pepperbird Established Member

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There are lots and lots of women who chase men. Just take a look at the threads on here, or go to any bar on a Saturday night. The "cougars' will be prowling!

 

 

Funny thing is men don't even realize it. A wife who steps out of her marriage is often looking, or at least receptive to, flattery, attention etc. from another guy. She may not even be aware of it, but when she sees the a guy and the primal part of he brain takes notice, she'll start taking more time with her appearance, be more "flirty" etc....like I said she may not even be aware of it.

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metalbabble Member

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As a recently single 38-yo guy with no kids who is looking for babymomma material, you'd better believe that I'm not paying much attention to the relationship status of the women I meet.

 

It's nothing personal. I'm just looking to connect with a person and build an awesome relationship, and the pool of women (27-32 with no kids and good looking) tends to be a mine field. When I find someone who checks all the boxes, I pretty much just assume she has some situation, but that's far down the list of concerns.

 

Plus, the premise here is kind of sexist. Women, or at least the women I'm interested in, are strong, confident and capable of making their own relationship decisions. I'll never push someone to do something they don't want to.

 

Getting facetime with the right women is not easy. You do what you have to, and that often means leaving weaker men to deal with their insecurities in the wake of your presence.

stillafool Established Member

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There are lots and lots of women who chase men. Just take a look at the threads on here, or go to any bar on a Saturday night. The "cougars' will be prowling!<snip>

Not just cougars. Young girls chase men too. As a matter of fact women are becoming far more assertive when it comes to getting sex from a guy they find attractive.

 

As far as cheaters are concerned I think the one who deserves the beat down is the wayward spouse who made the vows to you.

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