MyManCantletgo Posted September 17, 2005 Posted September 17, 2005 Ok I have been with this guy for 3yrs and he has cheated on me 4 times I have never cheated on him before because he always made me happy but recently I have found this guy I really like and he seems to do all the things that I wish he would do. (like compliment me and make me feel real beautiful) I really am totally attracted to hima nd have not even had any physical contact with him. But I find myself thinking about him even when I am around my boyfriend I am not quiet sure what I should. I know that an eye for an eye is never right but a part os me feels if he does not have enough respect for me that he did it 4 times why should I care about doing it once. I have thought about telling him how I feel but I already know what he wil say " go ahead and do it " And he'll act like he could care less but as soon as he finds out it will be a whole diffrent ball game. So Love Shack what do you suggest I do get my revenge quietly or let the cat out of the bag after the affier has already started. Thank you, MyManCan'tLetGo
d'Arthez Posted September 17, 2005 Posted September 17, 2005 If you could not care less whether or not you cheated on your boyfriend, why are you still in the relationship with your boyfriend? If cheating is so bad in your book, why are you still with this guy? To cheat once can be a mistake, or an "accident. 4 times, and that is hard to believe. Break up with him, and pursue the guy you are now interested in. The chances of anything positive coming from that course of action are much higher, than when you would cheat on your boyfriend with your current interest. Are you married per chance?
mopar crazy Posted September 17, 2005 Posted September 17, 2005 If you could not care less whether or not you cheated on your boyfriend, why are you still in the relationship with your boyfriend? If cheating is so bad in your book, why are you still with this guy? To cheat once can be a mistake, or an "accident. 4 times, and that is hard to believe. Break up with him, and pursue the guy you are now interested in. The chances of anything positive coming from that course of action are much higher, than when you would cheat on your boyfriend with your current interest. Are you married per chance? I have to agree. When my H had an A in our 11 years of M the last thing I wanted was to turn around and have an A myself to get back at him. We separated and were going to D (he filed) and even then I could not bring myself to sleep w/ someone else, even guys I found attractive. I still loved my H and I didn't want to sleep w/ any one else until I was over him. If you want to cheat on your BF b/c he cheated on you does not make for a good relationship. It's time to let this guy go and find someone who will treat you w/ respect and not cheat on you. Cheating to get even is never an answer if you want to work on a relationship.
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