Shawnnag35 Posted January 27, 2019 Posted January 27, 2019 Ill try to make this short. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. About a month ago i started getting sent out of town to work. The first time i was away one evening he out of ths blue stopped answering my calls and texts. I later found out that he was using cocaine and lied to me. The night i came home he did the same thing. Me and him both have pasts with drugs. Different drugs but still...we promised eachother no more. I have forgiven so much stuff because i love him and i know he loves me but ive about had enough. Friday night i left to go out of town again and he swore it was all behind us. He was going to earn my trust back. But he didnt. Same thing happend. I told him he made his choice and i cant do it no more. But after talking he swore it wont happen no more. I am so torn because i dont trust him but i love him. He just makes me feel so worthless like i dont matter otherwise he wouldnt have betrayed me like that. I shouldnt have to stress and worry about what hes doing while im working trying to gwt us ahead. Its not fair. Am i wrong for giving him another chance? Its hard to just walk away from someone u love even tho u know u probably should. Just not sure what to do.
Curiousroxy86 Posted January 27, 2019 Posted January 27, 2019 You know what to do. You leave. One chance ok. Two chances are enough. Anything more your training a man not to respect you. He sees you as someone who will always forgive. He knows you love him which is why he can continue asking for chances and breaking his word plus he is dealing with an addiction which is hard enough to try to stand by his own word alone. You got to walk away from people you love if they are not giving you the love you need. You just have to love him from afar because you loving him isn't enough to remain in a relationship. You should remain in a relationship where both people are doing for each other not one person. So again I say walk away.
smackie9 Posted January 27, 2019 Posted January 27, 2019 He needs rehab and counseling...he needs to go. Be supportive, go with him, and make sure he gets a sponsor to keep an eye out for him. He has a problem, so he either gets help, or you get out of this relationship.
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