mmattt Posted January 26, 2019 Posted January 26, 2019 Basically, we've been dating for 3 years. Last weekend, we were at the club together where there was 'questionable behavior' that really upset me that night. His friends called him out on how he was treating me. The next morning, he is embarrassed and breaks up with me. He says he is 'confused'. I leave. Not even 2 hours later, him and the new person are texting eachother. A LOT. (i know that they just met 100% for sure the night before. and i know they were texting because of phone logs. I checked because i was suspicious of the night before) They talk for a couple of days, and then it DIES completely off. Thats when he reaches out and contacts me (but also, because he didnt expect me to move half of my stuff out) He keeps attempting to contact me. Today he said these things: 'i'm with the fam and i cant help but let you know that i feel like you should be here"i cant stop thinking about you. you are a piece of me whether you believe it or not. i dont think you understand how much i care about and love youi want passion from youi cant accept this. i cant accept you being gone. theres gotta be more to this is all im saying I remained very calm, and basically to every response gave no indication that I was clingy or desperate. He then said "im still confused. thats why im trying to talk about it" The thing is, I have seen where he has been talking to, inviting other people over, etc. There have been several he's tried to talk to within the past 5 days. One particular person, a new person, he friended on FB and went and liked all of the person's pictures. Is he really confused? Or, is he stringing me along/keeping me as a backup?
Ronni_W Posted January 26, 2019 Posted January 26, 2019 Is he really confused? Or, is he stringing me along/keeping me as a backup? Given how actively he is pursuing other people, it sounds like the latter. All his 'sweet talk' is just his attempt to keep you blind...good for you that you're not falling for it! Sorry about your break-up. I'd offer that you do whatever you need to, to keep yourself at an emotionally safe distance so that you can do your proper healing, without him being able to interfere in the process. Hugs.
AnniePell Posted January 27, 2019 Posted January 27, 2019 Basically, we've been dating for 3 years. Last weekend, we were at the club together where there was 'questionable behavior' that really upset me that night. His friends called him out on how he was treating me. The next morning, he is embarrassed and breaks up with me. He says he is 'confused'. I leave. Not even 2 hours later, him and the new person are texting eachother. A LOT. (i know that they just met 100% for sure the night before. and i know they were texting because of phone logs. I checked because i was suspicious of the night before) They talk for a couple of days, and then it DIES completely off. Thats when he reaches out and contacts me (but also, because he didnt expect me to move half of my stuff out) He keeps attempting to contact me. Today he said these things: 'i'm with the fam and i cant help but let you know that i feel like you should be here"i cant stop thinking about you. you are a piece of me whether you believe it or not. i dont think you understand how much i care about and love youi want passion from youi cant accept this. i cant accept you being gone. theres gotta be more to this is all im saying I remained very calm, and basically to every response gave no indication that I was clingy or desperate. He then said "im still confused. thats why im trying to talk about it" The thing is, I have seen where he has been talking to, inviting other people over, etc. There have been several he's tried to talk to within the past 5 days. One particular person, a new person, he friended on FB and went and liked all of the person's pictures. Is he really confused? Or, is he stringing me along/keeping me as a backup? Easy to find out, text him, meet me at city hall, we are getting married.
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