Dating a Woman I have 70% interest level in

[Jason93]

So there's this woman I met online and so far I have 4 dates in with her. Basically I met her 6 weeks ago. We are not official boyfriend/girlfriend. I don't know if we are going to be as it is too soon for that and I'm not going to ask her to be my girlfriend.

 

My interest level in her is 70%. In other words I have mediocre attraction to her. Physically she looks like a 5 or 6 on a scale of 1-10 so she is average. Personality? She is very talkative and very kind.

 

Anyway do you think I would be wasting her time if I made her the girlfriend when I have only 70% interest level?

[Purepony]

Yes you willl be wasting your time and hers.

 

Be a man and just drop her and find someone who you actually like and have a higher attraction with.

 

Obviously your not interested that’s why you are second guessing yourself

[BaileyB]

Just curious, where do you think she would put you on the attraction and physical appearance scale?

 

Some things are just not meant to be measured... if you are not attracted to her, let her find someone who is.

[RecentChange]

Yes

 

End of subject

[Jason93]

Yes you willl be wasting your time and hers.

 

Be a man and just drop her and find someone who you actually like and have a higher attraction with.

 

Obviously your not interested that’s why you are second guessing yourself

 

 

I can understand why it is a waste of her time but how is it a waste of my time?

[RecentChange]

Why bother going out with someone you aren’t really attracted to? You could be missing out on meeting someone you really like.

 

Also, knowingly wasting her time is just a crappy thing to do. Are you really that self centered?

[Jason93]

Why bother going out with someone you aren’t really attracted to? You could be missing out on meeting someone you really like.

 

Also, knowingly wasting her time is just a crappy thing to do. Are you really that self centered?

 

I didn't say I was not attracted to her. My attraction is mediocre. Any interest level above 50% is romantic attraction but in different degrees.

[alphamale]

So there's this woman I met online and so far I have 4 dates in with her. Basically I met her 6 weeks ago. We are not official boyfriend/girlfriend. I don't know if we are going to be as it is too soon for that and I'm not going to ask her to be my girlfriend.

 

My interest level in her is 70%. In other words I have mediocre attraction to her. Physically she looks like a 5 or 6 on a scale of 1-10 so she is average. Personality? She is very talkative and very kind.

 

Anyway do you think I would be wasting her time if I made her the girlfriend when I have only 70% interest level?

 

how is she in the kitchen? if she makes you a nice and tasty meal your interest level may go up to 80%

[RecentChange]

Well I would be VERY CLEAR with her that this will only be very superficial dating. Basically let her know she is free to date other people as well.

 

Honestly, that works. There have been times in my life when I was dating several men at once because I wasn’t crazy about any of them, and I let them know clearly that we could have some fun but it wouldn’t be going anywhere.

 

Once I met someone I was crazy about they were dropped quickly.

 

Just be considerate enough to be honest with her, so she doesn’t let herself develop emotions for you. Because it would really hurt her if she did.

[Lotsgoingon]

The answer is obvious from the wording in your question.

 

You have zero enthusiasm ... your interest seems way lower than 75 percent. Yes, you want to go out with someone you have much higher interest in.

[Highndry]

I really don't even understand this whole 70% thing. My brain doesn't do that. As a guy I am either attracted to a woman or I'm not.

[Jason93]

Well I would be VERY CLEAR with her that this will only be very superficial dating. Basically let her know she is free to date other people as well.

 

Honestly, that works. There have been times in my life when I was dating several men at once because I wasn’t crazy about any of them, and I let them know clearly that we could have some fun but it wouldn’t be going anywhere.

 

Once I met someone I was crazy about they were dropped quickly.

 

Just be considerate enough to be honest with her, so she doesn’t let herself develop emotions for you. Because it would really hurt her if she did.

 

 

Is it ok to buy a gift for a woman I am medicorely interested in?

[basil67]

Is it ok to buy a gift for a woman I am medicorely interested in?

 

Why would you bother?

[Jason93]

Why would you bother?

 

Because it can't hurt to give her something I know she likes.

[chillii]

Meanwhile she may be falling for you.

So although plenty of people seem to do it especially in forums , your you , do you wanna hurt her and waste her time ?

[Jason93]

Meanwhile she may be falling for you.

So although plenty of people seem to do it especially in forums , your you , do you wanna hurt her and waste her time ?

 

 

No I don't want that on my conscience