What’s the safe way for a woman to find a FWB?

[Highroller107]

Obviously I want a relationship but that’s not going to happen anytime soon. I have wants and needs. Therefore I want a fwb in the meantime. I could go on tinder but I’m leery if I put that I’m looking for a fwb that some psycho is on the other end or that I’m being catfished or robbed. Or I could just go to the bars. Tinder or Bars/Clubs?

[central]

How about a regular old OLD dating site? Look for someone who might want a relationship someday (i.e., not just a quick hook-up, because they won't even stick around for FWB), and go for a date or two. They can easily be turned into a FWB after a few dates. Just say you're not a great match, but the sex is fun (if it is, o/w, Next!).

 

The bars and Tinder folk may be okay for a hookup, but you have no idea, really, if they are safe bets. The chances are better on a "regular" dating site - you just may have to reach out first to get their attention.

[Highroller107]

What’s a regular dating app? On tinder I guess I won’t put that I’m looking for a fwb, I’ll just put that I’m looking for fun dates and once I go on the first meeting There’s a good chance the guy will ask me to go to “his place” yeah, good plan . I’ll go on regular “dates” first instead of sounding like a hooker looking for a fwb.

Edited January 25, 2019 by Highroller107

[caveman621]

My wife and I met on OKCupid. Started out as FWB. You need to be a little coy to start. Go on a couple of dates and see how it goes. I haven't been on for years, but there was something asking what you're looking for. I think if you put just sex, you won't have many matches. But then there's a "Dating but nothing serious" category I think.

[Fekenaws]

With most of the girls I've been friends with they usually just choose one of the "acquaintance" guys they know were floating around in the background and then just turn up the heat with them. No need for tinder or any of the other dating sites. Just don't pick a legitimate friend because sex with destroy that bond the second he's inside you

[Jaylicks]

It’s easy for women to get what they need. Just tell a guy what you want.

[stillafool]

Aren't you in college? There are tons of potentials there.

[basil67]

If you want safe, then find a guy who you know and trust.

[Leafeon]

It’s easy for women to get what they need. Just tell a guy what you want.

 

This made me giggle.