elaine567 Posted January 25, 2019 Posted January 25, 2019 I kind of want to punch him in the face at this point, the two-sided feeling will remain because he's one of the good guys, and the only reason this seems to be happening is because he's so scared of being hurt/bossed around/claimed and he's allowing something like this to destroy something that went so well. That is the story you are writing in your head about him, whether it is true or not is another matter. Fact is for whatever reason, he ended it in a long text. Whatever you were feeling he wasn't feeling it and there is nothing you can do about that. You thought it was going well, he thought "We are better as just friends..." It happens. You say there was no-one else, but you don't actually know that, do you? Wrap it up and move on. He made his feelings plain, listen to him.
Grey40 Posted January 25, 2019 Posted January 25, 2019 When this happens it’s always 1 of these 2 things: A) there’s someone else in the picture—someone new, Someone they’re seeing simultaneously or someone they were seeing and now are back with them/feel guilty about cheating or straying. Just because someone says they are only seeing you, doesn’t mean they are telling the truth. B) got scared that its going to turn into something serious and don’t want to become emotionally attached or scared that it may jeopardize the work situation. Realize that dating someone they work with isn’t a good idea, but wanted to see if it could work.
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