fooloflurve Posted January 24, 2019 Posted January 24, 2019 My ex and i were broken up for almost 2 months,he dumped me after and told me i was selfish nitpicking everything over me, after 2 months + we still text on and off, he replied lesser closer to the break up, now it's been sometime and we started flirting, and texting more, he even said i love you and talked about all the good times we had, we texted for a week very often and today he just went radio silence. I did said something about me moving to his city and i asked him what does he mean by his ' i love you ', he skipped both questions and never replied to that, i just dont know whats going on now, i once told him i cant be friends with him and he insisted on keeping in touch, i know he doesn't keep in touch with any of his exes, i asked him and he says cause he had bad relationships tats why he doesn't keep in touch with them he recently just moved back to his city and hasnt had a job yet, so basically he's not working and rather free to text, but he just stopped replying after like a few days of texting(sweet things,asking about my life, sharing his life). i do love him and i want to get back together, and i dont know if i said the wrong thing by implying me going to his city and moving for him or asking the ' i love you ' text. Please help.
basil67 Posted January 24, 2019 Posted January 24, 2019 Did he ever give a sincere apology and explanation as to why he dumped you? 1
Hollywood-Tourist Posted January 24, 2019 Posted January 24, 2019 If he wasn't remorseful about the breakup and showed no compassion, then that should tell you what kind of person he really is.
Author fooloflurve Posted January 24, 2019 Author Posted January 24, 2019 Did he ever give a sincere apology and explanation as to why he dumped you? Yes he did apologized multiple times when i went crazy and lashed out on him, he then said he wants to keep in touch, reason to why he dumped me is he said he dislike some kind of behavior and personality back then.
Author fooloflurve Posted January 24, 2019 Author Posted January 24, 2019 If he wasn't remorseful about the breakup and showed no compassion, then that should tell you what kind of person he really is. He did apologized.
elaine567 Posted January 24, 2019 Posted January 24, 2019 Sounds like he was just "keeping in touch", but when you started taking him seriously by mentioning moving to his city, he totally clammed up. Dumpers can often keep in contact with dumpees and keep it on a light, flirty and friendly basis as they are often no longer emotionally involved. He probably thought you were in the same place, until you mentioned moving...
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