amesahin Posted January 23, 2019 Posted January 23, 2019 Hey Everyone! Please help me! I have a question that I’m cringing to ask! I’m a single parent, working as a Cashier in a small family Convenience Store. I really enjoy working there as most of my Customers are lovely people..especially one Customer in particular. He’s recently moved into the area 7 months ago, and have been interested in him since. He is very friendly, an outgoing person, very easy personality, always speaks his mind. He enjoys talking to me, laughs a lot with me, makes silly jokes with me but that is it. The problem I’m having is I can’t figure out whether he could also be interested in me or is this his personality. He did mention twice about not having a girlfriend, but we were having a neutral conversation about himself, and only 3 days ago I had put myself out in a conversation as being single..so he knows. The other day after ‘teasing’ me where I got a little upset he did a respect knuckle to me which made me think he could only see me as a ‘friend’. At the end of the day, not only is he a Customer but he is liked by every staff and I don’t want to ruin this. I’m 28, he’s 33. What could I possibly do?
d0nnivain Posted January 23, 2019 Posted January 23, 2019 Ask him what he does when he's not shopping at the store.
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted January 23, 2019 Posted January 23, 2019 Or if there's a several day lag in his visits, ask him what's been keeping him busy these days, you haven't seen him around.
Author amesahin Posted January 23, 2019 Author Posted January 23, 2019 He comes in everyday like sometimes even twice or more
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted January 23, 2019 Posted January 23, 2019 Do you sell lottery tickets? Maybe when the next "big one" comes around ask him what he'd do if he won? Compliment him on something he's wearing, or how he smells, or if you notice a new haircut. 1
LivingWaterPlease Posted January 23, 2019 Posted January 23, 2019 Next time he comes in light up! Smile real big, lift your eyebrows and let your eyes twinkle as you say, "Hi!" or whatever it is you say! Let him shop around and when he comes to the counter flirt lightly with him. If he responds to it lay it on as thick as you're comfortable doing! 1
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted January 23, 2019 Posted January 23, 2019 If you're feeling extra bold, say, "Hi handsome!" 1
Chris2016 Posted January 24, 2019 Posted January 24, 2019 (edited) Wear a low-cut shirt where a bit of boobies show. Or, bend in front of him, as if it is part of your job. Or, if you anticipate him coming through an aisle, pretend to lift a box like it's heavy (it doesn't actually have to be heavy), and allow him to help. -His protector, helper instinct may kick-in, and also release his love juices, to notice you. Problem solved. Edited January 24, 2019 by Chris2016
Mr. Lucky Posted January 24, 2019 Posted January 24, 2019 He comes in everyday �� like sometimes even twice or more Boy, he sure seems to need a lot of groceries! Unless he's coming in for a different reason? And amesahin, he happens to appear coincidentally while you're working? Tell him you get off at 5 pm, ask him if he'd like to get a cup of coffee. Fortune favors the brave... Mr. Lucky 1
Curiousroxy86 Posted January 24, 2019 Posted January 24, 2019 Date other men. Men that like you will ask you out. But if you want to take a chance and have the stomach for rejection ask him out (though I don't recommend it)
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