Author Insoc Posted January 26, 2019 Author Posted January 26, 2019 Looks like a big red flag! I would only sext after I met the guy and had sex with him, not with a stranger online Well I know people who claimed to have done this with real people, it's just a fantasy though, even did Google Hangouts Video Calls. I know it happens more so now than it did years back, at least from what I'm reading so I hate to discount it 100% as being so.
Author Insoc Posted January 26, 2019 Author Posted January 26, 2019 Sounds like a catfish situation to me. Ask to do a video chat so that she can "show her goodies" if she is so stoked about it. If she says no you have your answer. I never asked the 1st one, knew she wouldn't go for it because she made excuses about sending me selfies, the 2nd one didn't want to do it, so maybe that answers that, but she came back with another message that she is uncomfortable doing video chats as of late, and said that she doesn't look good on video feeds. I'm like, sexting isn't "uncomfortable"? I should have suggested it with the first one, I really spent time talking to her and would have be interesting what she said. I know a lot of married women or women in relationships are online doing this stuff, they might be the people in the pics, but they are living dual lives and don't want to give out too much that will jeopardize their comfort zone. Then you have the ones who never speak on the phone or want to meet in person, catfish for sure. I turn down many who didn't want to talk on the phone or meet face to face.
I'veseenbetterlol Posted January 26, 2019 Posted January 26, 2019 Hooking up wasn't really on my radar and the distance factor isn't like it's down the street. I never 'hooked up" so I don't know how I'd feel about it after the fact, I always been in a relationship with someone regarding the Sex. Then this woman isn't for you. This goes for both men and women. When someone talks about sex early on, that is not a sign of someone looking for a serious relationship. I've come across this situation a couple times and learned who to stay away from.
Author Insoc Posted January 26, 2019 Author Posted January 26, 2019 Then this woman isn't for you. This goes for both men and women. When someone talks about sex early on' date=' that is not a sign of someone looking for a serious relationship. I've come across this situation a couple times and learned who to stay away from.[/quote'] It didn't start out that way and it wasn't like that 100% of the time, but I see your point and I feel I could have spent more time and get emotionally attached to her and then found out that's all she wanted and then see you later after it was done, I think I'd feel more hurt after that then cutting it off like I did.
I'veseenbetterlol Posted January 26, 2019 Posted January 26, 2019 It didn't start out that way and it wasn't like that 100% of the time, but I see your point and I feel I could have spent more time and get emotionally attached to her and then found out that's all she wanted and then see you later after it was done, I think I'd feel more hurt after that then cutting it off like I did. Much better you found out now because I've been hurt by dudes charming me when all they wanted was sex. That was def hurtful for me.
Author Insoc Posted January 27, 2019 Author Posted January 27, 2019 Much better you found out now because I've been hurt by dudes charming me when all they wanted was sex. That was def hurtful for me. I agree, not what I'm looking for anyways. It seems listing "No hook-ups' in profiles doesn't matter?
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