PRW Posted January 23, 2019 Posted January 23, 2019 Thank you kind sir. Nighttime it is!Ok, but it doesn't have to be extremes. I'm not saying never do anything else. I'm just saying make sure the "romantic" side of things always outweighs the "just friends" side of things.
fieldoflavender Posted January 24, 2019 Posted January 24, 2019 I'm having relationship issues (leading to probable break up) because of too many daytime dates. I'm struggling to find the romance aspect. And he doesn't want to have sex. So yeah - either extreme is not good. At this point, he's being downgraded to a guy friend status and I think I enjoy spending more time with my other guy friend. So what is the point. I'm imagining you don't want to head that direction either.
Els Posted January 24, 2019 Posted January 24, 2019 Weekend daytime dates should be fine. IMO going to brunch or the museum or a park/beach together is every bit as romantic as an evening date. Midweek dates are a bit more tricky if you live an hour apart, unless you don't mind being the one to do the extra driving. 1 hour apart does not sound like a huge hurdle if you have the financial resources and your work schedule allows a little flexing. Work at 10 hours day, next day work 6 and go on a mid week date or work 4 ten hour shifts and add a mid week date. Utilize a 1/2 day vacation or personal day. Umm, there are VERY few people who can simply opt to work a 6-hour day whenever they want to, or who can afford to take a half day off EVERY week. I'm lucky to be one of those, but I'm mindful that the vast majority of workers can't.
Grey40 Posted January 25, 2019 Posted January 25, 2019 It doesn’t matter, you haven’t been seeing the girl that long and it’s been working out. Stop worrying about trying to move the relationship quicker than it needs to go, when she wants to see you more she’ll let you know and then you can make it happen. Right now just sounds like you’re forcing it out of fear that she thinks you only wants sex. Stop with that nonsense. If that was the case she’d already be gone or would have brought it up.
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