basil67 Posted January 22, 2019 Posted January 22, 2019 Me too. When I tried online dating, if there is to be a second date I always prefer it to be at his house. I don't want sex I want to see where he lives. I want to know the address, what pictures he has on his walls, what books he reads (and whether he has a bookshelf), but I don't snoop in the medicine cabinet although I really want to, I don't do it, haha. And I'd probably do the same. But if we were to be date raped, we both know that we'd be told by many that it was our fault.
ExpatInItaly Posted January 22, 2019 Posted January 22, 2019 I feel like women, especially myself, want to be well liked. I hate hurting people''s feelings and I always go way overboard for other people. I have very low self worth when it comes to dating and setting my standards. I make every excuse in the book for guys, they don't even have to use them I will internalize it for them. And all that has gotten me is unavailable men or men who want just sex. This is what I would focus on improving before you venture into the dating world. This man is a non-starter. He's barely showing interest so you did the right thing by declining his invitation. It's not only about the second invitation to his house to cook, but also the fact that he didn't bother following up about Sunday until...Sunday. His interest level was too low. 1
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