MaleIntuition Posted January 21, 2019 Posted January 21, 2019 I read your previous thread and this one. This guys seem to intentionally behave nonchalant/rude - most likely because he found some red-pill/incel stuffs online and started to have more success with his new belief system. At best it’s based on some emotional manipulation; “blablabla I’m popular so I don’t care what you think about me blabla” and it seems to work for immature men to catch immature girls. All that is, however, irrelevant. You are asking the wrong question. His interest is irrelevant - what do you want? Do you really like this boy or are you simply seeking his approval?
mortensorchid Posted January 21, 2019 Posted January 21, 2019 If you in any way questioning if he likes you then this is a problem. A guy who likes a woman and wants to be with her will reach out in some way. He sounds like he is pulling a slow fade. If so, it's what it is. 1
Author frus69 Posted January 22, 2019 Author Posted January 22, 2019 I do agree a woman should not have to question a guy's interest. However, maybe some women are just too insecure,anxious, or have unrealistic expectations? Last week when I was supposed to see him Friday night, I hadnt heard from him at all Thursday and when I texted to confirm the date Friday morning, he didnt reply till Friday late afternoon. I was so so sure he had lost interest and would stand me up, but he didnt. And when I talked to him about it, he said "If we have set the date, I will come. If I don't, I will let you know." So turned out he just didnt think he need to re-confirm at all, unless he's NOT coming. Plus he was busy working...So looks like I was creating problems when there were none! I'm not trying to find excuses, but I think he's stopped teasing and put more effort in texting, for me. So I won't write him off already. But I will try chill out and back off and see if he initiates. To be positive, he may surprise me, right?
toomanyquestions123 Posted January 22, 2019 Posted January 22, 2019 I do agree a woman should not have to question a guy's interest. However, maybe some women are just too insecure,anxious, or have unrealistic expectations? Last week when I was supposed to see him Friday night, I hadnt heard from him at all Thursday and when I texted to confirm the date Friday morning, he didnt reply till Friday late afternoon. I was so so sure he had lost interest and would stand me up, but he didnt. And when I talked to him about it, he said "If we have set the date, I will come. If I don't, I will let you know." So turned out he just didnt think he need to re-confirm at all, unless he's NOT coming. Plus he was busy working...So looks like I was creating problems when there were none! I'm not trying to find excuses, but I think he's stopped teasing and put more effort in texting, for me. So I won't write him off already. But I will try chill out and back off and see if he initiates. To be positive, he may surprise me, right? I agree with that some women have some insecurities but i do know that if a guy is really interested in me he will not leave me wondering. If you read my last thread, I'm dating someone who has anxiety disorder, he always communicate with me, but the first 3 weeks he used to communicate the whole time, initiate dates, call me, text me good morning, and after our second date he kind of pulled away. He still kept calling me but only once per day ( no good morning, no goodnight ). He stopped asking me out ( our third date was after 2 weeks from our second ). So yesterday, i said to myself, i really don't have to wonder if he is interested in me or no. I talked to him and i was honest about how i feel, he admitted that he was really busy lately and it was his mistake. Today, i woke up with a morning text from him...Honesty is the key i say !
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