Targetlock Posted January 19, 2019 Posted January 19, 2019 Hi all, its a really long time since i posted anything here but i come bearing good tidings, i have a girlfriend we have been dating since the start of December and things are going really well. Some of you might remember i went on a date with a girl at the start of the year but due to life getting in the way it didn't progress anything, well at the end of this year we reconnected and hit it off really well even had her over for a dinner date at my new place (i also moved into my own place middle of last year) and will hopefully be spending my birthday next week together as well. her birthday isn't long after mine near valentines date, were not sure what we are doing for it but i look forward to seeing what happens. I have learned from my past relationship and trying not to rush things and take them as they come wish me luck! 2
Lotsgoingon Posted January 20, 2019 Posted January 20, 2019 Sounds like things are flowing with you two. Much good luck! 1
edgygirl Posted January 20, 2019 Posted January 20, 2019 Good news on LS for a change! Happy for you! Plan a date for Valentine's day, instead of planning it together with her. Make it a surprise. 1
Author Targetlock Posted January 20, 2019 Author Posted January 20, 2019 Good news on LS for a change! Happy for you! Plan a date for Valentine's day, instead of planning it together with her. Make it a surprise. the gift will be surprise though not sure if i can plan what we are doing though as i don't drive and neither does she and there is a little distance between us. saw her today and went out with her and one of her friends for a day trip, gave me a pile of pressies to open on my birthday not used to getting spoiled like this.
mortensorchid Posted January 21, 2019 Posted January 21, 2019 Glad to hear this! All the best to you both.
Author Targetlock Posted January 27, 2019 Author Posted January 27, 2019 And sadly it is already over and done, we had a big fight over a simple thing at the start of the week (all i said that i was concerned that her health issues were affecting her well-being and i was concerned about how that will affect the relationship) and it escalated and i ended up discovering she is very manipulative, controlling and unsympathetic (i had just lost my grandad at the end of the last week) and how everything i was doing was wrong :/ so yeah it ended with us breaking up and we have no contact and we arent even friends even more. oh okay with it though better i find out now rather than later. better off being single than being unhappy.
Cersei Posted January 27, 2019 Posted January 27, 2019 Oh geez. Sorry it ended so fast; but yes, better to see her true colors sooner rather than later. 1
Author Targetlock Posted January 27, 2019 Author Posted January 27, 2019 Oh geez. Sorry it ended so fast; but yes, better to see her true colors sooner rather than later. thanks, yeah me too rather now than when i was much more invested. i just feel relieved tbh. 1
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